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Beware of the “Nice Guy” (sorry, this is long)

Beware of the “Nice Guy” (sorry, this is long)

Edged_Weapons Created Jul 20, 2019 19:51
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I think we’ve probably all encountered the self-proclaimed “nice guy” who is, in fact, not nice at all. If you really don’t know what I’m talking about, you can go to r/niceguys on reddit and sift through all of that material for awhile. This is the guy who claims that girls don’t like him because he’s “nice” and that girls only like assholes who treat them badly and that “nice guys finish last.” This is, in my opinion, the biggest red flag of all. And I just want to talk about how exhausted I am with these men.

So, I go on a date with a guy that my friend set me up with. She says he’s “nice.” Okay, I figure I’ll give it a shot. So I meet up with him, and right off the bat he says something about how girls don’t normally like “nice guys like him.” I know exactly how the rest of this conversation will go, but I ask him to clarify. Immediately he’s listing off reasons why he never gets the girl - he’s not good looking enough, he’s not exciting, he’s too nice. At one point during this conversation, he starts CRYING and talking about how he’s going to die alone. Let me remind you, I am a girl who is currently on a date with him, trying to get to know him and showing interest in him - he sees none of this. Instead of getting to know me, he has wasted our entire date whining about other women and ignoring the woman directly in front of him. I find this pretty freaking bizarre. I’m just going to fast forward through the rest of this date and tell you it involved more crying, more complaining - all while telling me over and over how “nice” he is. Dude, you are NOT NICE! You have just wasted the whole evening bitching and ignoring the girl who is showing interest in you!!! What the hell?

I got a weird apology letter the next day explaining why we should be together because he’ll be the perfect man for me. Okay. No thank you.

Now, this just happened again where I’m talking to someone, making an effort to get to know them, and they spend the conversation doing the following things:
1) listing off reasons why I shouldn’t like him
2) calling himself a “nice guy” while not giving me a single reason to believe that he is, in fact, nice.
3) declaring that he will die alone.

Sigh. I just...I can’t. I’m exhausted. Dude, you just completely blew it, and you didn’t even notice that I was trying to give you a chance. Why do men act like this? It’s baffling.

 

This topic has 180 comments

Queen Bitch

Jul 20, 2019 20:10

Yup, beware the self-proclaimed nice guy.

gotunk

Jul 20, 2019 21:12

This is a public forum not your personal blog.

Edged_Weapons

Jul 20, 2019 21:30

What are you so angry about, gotunk?

Edged_Weapons

Jul 20, 2019 21:34

Oh wait....is it because you think you’re “nice?”

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Deleted User

Jul 20, 2019 21:45

At least with douche bags you know what you're gonna get. Nice guys are like a box of cats, you never know which one's going to claw your face off.

gotunk

Jul 20, 2019 22:04

I'm not angry at all, just saying do you see anyone else making posts like this? What is anyone supposed to respond with or discuss? Give you a "Good for you" and things of the like. Even roasting creeps from this site is frowned upon. You just wanted to rant and there are plenty of subs on reddit for that. Just not sure why you thought that everyone here needed to know all of this.

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Deleted User

Jul 20, 2019 22:06

Where is the nice guy spray? These dudes are everywhere!

On a side note Nice guy syndrome reminds me of over weight but great personality girls. Like the first things they say are "hey I know I'm not a twig and bones but I don't body shame and if you get to know me I have a great personality". Lol

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Deleted User

Jul 20, 2019 22:09

I think this is a fresh topic, nice and toasty. I like it!

gotunk

Jul 20, 2019 22:12

If we are going to be talking about nice guys. I have encountered the rare "gay nice guy" weirdest thing ever. The worst thing about nice guys is how they just lose their s**t and are just so inept. They even make terrible friends, like how could they screw that up?

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Deleted User

Jul 20, 2019 22:19

^ that exactly, They get all worked up mostly over nothing.

gotunk

Jul 20, 2019 22:28

I remember one guy who posted on here a while back who got upset that the loads of women he sent pretty much the same message to didn't respond. A handful of guys on here have done the same. It's a sad world they live in.

Edged_Weapons

Jul 20, 2019 22:29

I’m wondering why more people aren’t talking about their personal experiences. I’m not interested in shallow conversations, so anyone can talk to me about anything they want. Literally anything. I’m an open book. Let’s talk about real things instead of just listing musicians we like.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jul 20, 2019 22:45

Men act like it the same way women act like it. Just kidding... Do you know why no one ever mentions "nice gals"? After all "Sugar and spice and all things nice". Lies. They're never nice.

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 00:04

There's nice girls, they're just 400 pounds! Lol

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 00:34

I'm a nice guy! But if you look up best of nice girl and nice guy... I find being open to all things helps.

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 00:36

But i did get to be apart of a nice guy moment, speaking to a girl this fellow comes on says to her i'm evil toxic and he's nice.
Then he started telling me to leave her to me and send photos of guns and money.

I've watched bucket loads of it on youtube, but to actually be apart of it... So awesome

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 01:47

I'm really hoping you end up 400 pounds Sunny as your coming across perfect like your s**t dont stink. Those who like to criticise better be perfect or people look for their faults.

VaMpyR1c_BaNshE3

Jul 21, 2019 02:17

He sounds like that hes not ready for a relationship or any for that matter. if he's crying like a bitch about his exs on his date.

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 02:32

Lol I'm close to it, I'm actually over 300. No joke! I'm no criticism here. Girls of bigger size sometimes get jelous of smaller girls and body shame them to comfort themselves while driving away men by acting all Looney.

Sorry if I offended you by comparing nice guys to bigger women with a great personality .

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 02:34

in this situation, you say to him, 'lets see what emoji band is playing tonight"

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 02:36

Emo, I mean

Sean P.

Jul 21, 2019 03:21

I've dated women who have wanted a cross between Lemmy Killmister and Shane McGowan. Then they get what they want....... Doesn't go over well. You take one woman at different periods of her life or her day for that matter and she'll want different things. One moment respect, security, safety then the next moment danger, spontaneity etc. One thing is for certain. If she wants you she ain't gonna stop til she gets you. Nice guy, bad man, whatever you are. In the end....... You both gotta hold on for dear life. Because "love will tear you apart".......

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 03:36

I don't think there is anything wrong with showing your feelings, just don't think it's really suited on a date.
But from what I read.. you did ask him to clarify it?

Queen Bitch

Jul 21, 2019 03:51

I have to agree with you to some extent on this one Sean... People can be very fickle and many of us can be very moody. Ain't just women who don't really know what they want though... This can be anyone.

Chemistry is important, if it's there then you will both do anything to be with each other, if it isn't there, there is just no forcing it... Better to be alone than with the wrong person. It sounds like the guy on this particular date though OP, he needs therapy rather than a girlfriend.

Newguy2019

Jul 21, 2019 04:43

well, try not to become so jaded that you miss the truly nice guy!

he may have been nice but he was also hurt/damaged and stuck in the past instead of living in the moment and being aware of the beautiful girl in front of him!!!

by the way,...………. ill bet ted bundy and jeffrey Dahmer came across as really nice guys at first or maybe they were just really good at being whatever they needed to be to achieve their goals,,,,,,definition of a player correct???

damned if you do damned if you don't I guess, better luck in the future.

Ouroboros

Jul 21, 2019 11:13

1: Sounds like an incel with depression... also I haven't actually met anyone like this. I don't doubt their existence though.
2: Based off of your word choice, I can only hope that this friend isn't repeatedly setting you up with dates with people like this.
3: Was that guy fresh out of high school or some s**t? Where did your friend find this person?

And to respond to your question:
They probably have a deluded sense of reality based primarily on self pity, potentially made worse by circle-jerk type interactions within an incel community. They may lack conversation topics and only know how to talk about themselves. They may also prioritize "finding a partner that understands them" and lack a filter that lets them express their loneliness.

Sean P.

Jul 21, 2019 11:14

QB, true......

Migiヽ(^0^)ノ

Jul 21, 2019 11:57

I would never trust that friend to set me up on a blind date ever again OP. That date sounded awful.
Not that I'd ever do a blind date in the first place, I've heard way too many stories where the date ended badly.
Qb is right he needed therapy not a date. Maybe your friend set you up with him cause he just needed someone to vent his feelings to.
Oh and never look up nice guys/girls on reddit
I can't remember why but someone had me look it up once and I ended up in the most confusing of places online f**k reddit

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 13:45

Sorry Sunny, it came across you were bashing and not saying it happens.
There are many men who moan about ex gf and lost loves. One dating site has a question do you have an ex you'd like to date again, to me it's a red flag to avoid them.
One man I gave chances after moaning until he said he was crying as he had another Saturday night alone. I pointed out there was a girl who said she'd love to meet up that night so it was self inflicted and blocked him.

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Deleted User

Jul 21, 2019 14:30

Ahahaha, you should of just sold the dork your bathwater

KnottyScruffbag

Jul 21, 2019 15:32

We're gonna need a bigger boat.

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Telleghan

Jul 21, 2019 21:00

'Nice' is not a personality trait, it's the bare minimum.

GLunaStarrChild

Jul 21, 2019 21:29

Confession

(Likes nice guys)

🌻🌻🌻

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Deleted User

Jul 22, 2019 02:27

NOTICE ME I'M STILL A NICE GUY YOU ARSEHOLES! I mean i act and put forward this total air of i'm perfect girls should love me. I put in tokens of being nice and being a friend to you and no s*x.. WHY NO s*x! I like anime and i am totes a gorean so there is that..

But f**k all of you for not liking me and having the s*xes with me if you're a girl and not a boy...

Its hard to believe nice girls and boys exist til you see it.

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Deleted User

Jul 22, 2019 11:58

^oh, I'd go on a date with you, Brony, if you were not on the other side of the planet.

That OP is only one side of the story though, the guy ain't here to give his. Reminds me of that silly song, Do you have the time to listen to me whine (or do you only have time to talk about me in forums)? What would have happened if you had consoled the dookie instead? this idea that women on dates are put on pedestals and given 100% attention and fawned over is not how it is anymore; try the 17th century.
Be glad you didn't have one of those coffee dates, you know that one where it's like a job interview? questions like where do you find yourself in five years? the all-business date where they assessing where you are in the pecking order. I'd rather hang out with the emo and drink some wine.





Stingray.Affliction

Jul 22, 2019 20:30

some people have it some people dont. thats why its better on your ones like most of us mwahahahaa

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Deleted User

Jul 22, 2019 22:41

Yeah, this type of person is a meme now, usually characterized as overweight neckbearded fedora wearing nerds. They definitely exist and I can’t say I have any sympathy for them. At some point, a person has to put their past of being bullied or picked on in high school behind them and stop taking out on everyone else. Fück these whiny losers, grow up and get real.

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Deleted User

Jul 22, 2019 23:01

But neckbeards are all the rage now!! Boo to all that can't grow them! For they are the optimum of nice guy's and all female's should quiver in their presence!!

Adam Horror 1991

Jul 22, 2019 23:07

Do feel sorry for the guy you mentioned. I had issues with that in the past, where girls get bitchy and place me in friend zone. Although, I certainly wouldn't mention it on a date.

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Deleted User

Jul 23, 2019 00:27

We had that trololol kid not long ago dozer who was using all the incel buzz words. that goth girls are sought after... and many things that made this almost a brony cringe.

Themetalhorror

Jul 23, 2019 05:38

So, he had no self confidence, yet was all about himself? Sounds like a winner.

HangingShoes99

Jul 23, 2019 06:52

That’s why we date. Weed out people that are crap to find someone that isn’t. You will have 99% failure until you strike that 1% you like. Rinse, repeat.

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Deleted User

Jul 23, 2019 10:35

^we'll yeah...

Queen Bitch

Jul 23, 2019 19:36

Anyone who uses the word "friendzone" in anything other than a tone of irony is definitely one to watch out for...

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Deleted User

Jul 27, 2019 00:18

Maybe it's just me, but in my modest experience, those who call themselves nice guys are usually not. They are either big babies looking for a Mother figure, (Mummy says they are nice), or self absorbed and can only think about themselves. I'm generation X, and I still admire chivalry, so maybe I'm not the right person to comment. Shrugs

Now I'm sure there are lots of actual nice guys out there... sadly though they are usually too shy to come forward, so us ladies have no idea they like us. lol You must be brave guys!! We can't read minds.

I'm all for making a first move, and I have often asked guys out; but if I don't know someone likes me then he needs to let me know somehow that he is interested. Don't fear rejection, it happens. I've been rejected so many times I lost count, and I've had to reject people myself. We aren't attractive to everyone. And they're not all attracted to us. It is just life.

There is something wonderful about a nice guy. Thoughtful, humble, caring and sweet. But also it's nice to feel that a guy can stand on his own two feet, and take the lead now and then. Like by asking us out for example.

Not many girls want a snowflakey manchild. (Been there!) For me at least, a good date would be a nice guy who is romantic and caring, yet also strong and confident enough to ask the girl out.

ctsvbullet

Jul 27, 2019 00:39

you want some horror stories go watch review tech on youtube oh youll get some good stuff from that lol i dont thien their detion for nice the guy cuse their in most peo lpe would lost the s**t over small things they take personally dating pressure make peopel do crazy s**t i wouldnt trust friends anyway seot up cuse know the stories will happen

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Deleted User

Jul 27, 2019 12:51

Sounds like you dodged a bullet
But Does every guy from the southern us with damn manners count as a “nice guy” ?
I get lobbed into this category sometimes, if they don’t take the time to know me they won’t figure out that I’m also a freak

Dating is strange in itself the bizarre situations that can happen from peoples stupid perceptions

I had several dates with this chick once, then when she finally saw my place saw all my tools and thought I was going to make a SAW movie

I’m a mechanic not a serial killer 🤣
but I used to rebuild engines on my coffee table when I had a cabin

People think strange BULLs**t, the end 🤣

ctsvbullet

Jul 28, 2019 05:13

Maybe she afraid you'll build her new chrstine car lol

Zombie_punk_from-mars411

Jul 28, 2019 07:20

Wow, people like that are pathetic, even I don't act like that and I have legitimate self esteem issues, but these guys just sit and whine about how " nobody likes me" or "I'm gonna die alone" it's so transparent, obviously they want to garner sympathy because they think that it will get hem somewhere, when really all it takes is being a decent human being, engaging with people, being actually nice, and just being your honest self, no gimmicks, no whining, dude should have been overjoyed to be on that date, but instead he decided to ignore the woman sitting in front of him and complain like a pansy, I'm not by any means a smooth operator, but I at least have a real persponality.

Winterfrosst

Aug 18, 2019 23:19

I am a f**king asshole, but am extremely kind and courteous and will gladly bend over backwards to be of service to those deserving and who have honorably worked to prove that their true friends or at least real people. I give 100t of my loyalty and devotion to the few, and 100% of my most ugly, abrasively rude and arrogant and viciously hateful side to the majority. It has served me well, it has indeed created chaos and at times had proved to be "unnecessary" or the victim surprisingly didn't deserve to have been lashed out on, in such case i offer my apologies and buy them a beer, ask a woman friend to get them laid if she so desires, and accept that i'm not perfect and sometimes rage travels in the wrong direction. The point is f**k BEING NICE!!!! Its overrated, it never gets anyone laid, and people on average are not very intelligent and are incapable of comprehending kindness so its imperative to address these inferior masses of worthlessness and space pollution with aggression and cruelty. I like nice guys. I usually keep a few of their teeth to remember them by because something they said or did induced me to laugh hard enough to punch them. And what is fantastic is if women happen to be present at the time he is receiving oral extractions from me, i'm the one they are comforting afterwards.."baby is your fist okay?"..the poor nice dips**t holding his trembling jaw gets nothing, not even a taxi called on his behalf. Lol. He probably walks in the front door and his grandparents make fun of him for looking so goofy shrink wrapped in tears falling on his nice guy badge while attempting to hold his face in place...lmao!

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 01:29

I have never read a dumber rant by a more full of shït dope than that. Congratulations on winning that dubious distinction, fake tough guy.

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 03:05

Gru... So the thing is.... YOU made the above comment... WHICH lead me to read the comment above it... Which lead my coffee to cooling off slightly WHICH is bad. Oh wait its empty now....

RW that was the best piece of writing i've ever seen... I have no words for it.... Hai chad? It feels like chad got into laveyan satanism and wrote a manifesto.

I need another coffee for this.... sits back pop corn in hand... /least*tsnew /isaidt*ts

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 10:58

Rapacious you should put that side of you in your profile so people know what a d**k you are, that's if they can read it, ever heard if paragraphs?

Migiヽ(^0^)ノ

Aug 19, 2019 11:24

His profile is also a wall of text that I refuse to read

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 14:10

Come on now, everyone knows manifestos about what an asshole you are are s*xy as fück to all the ladies.

Winterfrosst

Aug 19, 2019 17:13

Yes!!!! Lmao x 1000!!! Touchdown!!!!
You know what??? I made all of that s**t up! All of it! I don't just walk up and sock people for no reason. You f**king people will believe anything anyone says. I said all of that s**t just because it amuses me to watch you all get so bent out of shape about it. You're like toys and i have the remote control. I push button and you react. Better than any movie. The only part of my writing that was factual was when i said that i am loyal to a fault to the people i care about and i couldn't give two s**ts about the rest. But even people i look down on i still address with respect....usually. There is nothing i despise more than a schoolyard bully and i will be the first motherf**ker to defend someone i see getting bullied by some asshole who gets off on intimidating people by pushing their weight against them barking.. Oh, and one last thing..i'm not going to apologize for being liked by most women..well i won't say most but many. Every time i log on, i get about two pages of profile visitors. And i am quite aware that its not on account of my personality. Its because they think i'm hot and want to f**k me. And thats great, and i'm gonna soak it up all i can while i can because i have no doubt that in 5 years there will be nothing i can do to hide the blemishes that shadow over every part of my being. Yes, i know that i'm a thousand miles far from perfect. At least i'm honest about what my flaws are instead of taking up space after space in this forum trying to win a nobel prize for self-righteousness when most of you are pretty f**king flawed yourselves but aren't humble enough to admit it.. HAVE A NICE DAY!!😝

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 17:36

I didn’t believe any of it, hence why I called you a FAKE tough guy. You should type less, especially because nothing you say is very interesting.

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 18:03

Ah, but what if it's a double bluff and his second statement is the lie?

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 18:19

Tl;dr

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 18:33

Every time he logs on, he has two new pages worth of profile visitors. Most unbelievable thing he said. Buddy, there are two pages worth of active members in the whole world on this fückin thing, you kidding me? That’s hilarious.

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 18:46

Hmm skim read that.
Tells others how awesome he is and how women want him, then says it's not his fault that women like him, the says he's flawed and others should be humble.

You're riding that high horse pretty high while coming across as super insincere.

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Deleted User

Aug 19, 2019 19:41

Thanks for a brief description of the post. Too long to read. If he talks that much in person anone stop I'm amazed the women can stay awake.

Migiヽ(^0^)ノ

Aug 20, 2019 01:35

Again too long didn't read. The first three sentences were enough to prevent me from wasting my time on that massive wall of text.

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Deleted User

Aug 20, 2019 02:25

Winterkorss, I suspect your edge is just too sharp for this joint

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Deleted User

Aug 20, 2019 03:26

What did he say this time? is there a tl;dr version? man he's cool....

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Deleted User

Aug 20, 2019 04:32

The profile is even better. I didn't know one could be so self absorbed they're an anti sponge.

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Deleted User

Aug 20, 2019 06:04

I laughed so hard i hurt myself. I still think he's cool.

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Deleted User

Aug 20, 2019 07:02

Not looking for any guys, so this nice guy won't be an issue, thanks.

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Deleted User

Aug 21, 2019 06:21

Welcome to modern-day narcissist society. This is me me me millennials, sorry if you are a millennial but wow have things changed over the last 30 or so years. You're on a date, he should be trying to impress you and treat you nice, in the old days this was called courting, not anymore, now with the advent of social media, Instagram and snap chat, we have now invented the obsessive narcissist.

Too easily offended and kind of wimpy person that needs all of the attention and pretends to be nice, when in fact they are rude, self-obsessed and nasty. Tbh I think you escaped a seriously controlling relationship and should be very thankful you didn’t go any further.

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Deleted User

Aug 21, 2019 13:12

As much as that is a total “get off my lawn” type of comment, boy is it 100% true.

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Deleted User

Aug 21, 2019 21:13

I did have a guy cry on the our first meeting; and he wasn't a millennial. Some people are needing to have someone listen to them because they are going through something. And then there are some people who are in constant need for attention and it can be a form of manipulation-they may have histrionic traits. We won't what kinda person they are on the first encounter of a few hours and on top of that, it depends on how forthcoming a person is, and so on. People are complicated. And people like me who take on the humanities, find humans to be the most interesting of all creatures. Someone tried to tell me that wolves are more intelligent and interesting. I disagree. Humans are. And people who read fiction, write fiction, screenplays, actors, and so on are those who are interested in humans. Not to constantly hate them.















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Deleted User

Aug 21, 2019 21:18

oh s**t, there goes my crappy burn out writing again; I agree this time. Come on, bring it on!

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Deleted User

Aug 21, 2019 21:26

Dude sounds like he's going through some s**t and needs some support from friends to get his s**t straight.

Then again, O.P.'s profile doesn't read like the most well-adjusted fish in the proverbial sea, either. *rolls-eyes

Me thinks the pot and kettle had a bad date, now they're both on diatribes about it.

Um moved to Mumbridge

Aug 22, 2019 09:24

I totally agree with Bear about the complete insincerity of this post. The guy sounds like he was depressed or had some mental health problems. He clearly needs support, not some bird posting about him and mocking him. Men cannot be all there all the time. If you'd been knocked down on every date, like hes explained to you, how would you feel on the next? Nervous, anxious, on edge? Did you even consider that? The dude clearly shouldn't be dating but he's obviously looking for someone to help him, its probably why hes torturing himself on these dates. Anyone with a half decent brain could see he needs help.

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Deleted User

Aug 22, 2019 16:17

I couldn't be chewed to read all that bollocks, but I had a gander at the responses.... not like I can read anyway.
Proper mad that you lot are like, he needs support. What he needs is a back bone. Ya nar women, the not free councillors. I reckon people are able to tell someone to swivel even if they are depressive little c**t bags... usually the best reason to leg it.
Who wants to be hanging about with Edward scissorhands when ya can have captain jack...

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Deleted User

Sep 17, 2019 11:17

In this modern dystopia of disconnected and superficial connection i think most of us are hoping for someone to help dispel our demons and heal the hurts we have accumulated. Some people know how to ask for that in a healthy way and some are just toxic.

I understand why OP encouraged him to explain himself. I like to do that too, if only to see just how deep the crazy goes. And hey, sometimes I like the flavor of crazy and go with it.

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Deleted User

Sep 17, 2019 13:46

We have another dragging old and dead posts back to the top again.

Jinx

Oct 12, 2019 18:31

nobody is all one thing, nice guys don't exist, we are all a product of the day and our situation.

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Deleted User

Oct 12, 2019 18:35

I used to be friends with a guy who would always lament/whinge that "nice guys always finish last", until I realised that he was a serial cheat and woman beater.
He got everything he deserved, and I haven't been friends with him for over 18 years.

gotunk

Oct 12, 2019 19:34

Here we go again...

ctsvbullet

Oct 14, 2019 19:12

is someone trying too copy my wall of confusion move

blackmetalsteve6

Oct 19, 2019 00:29

Everybody's an asshole, Cept for me, I'm a saturday morning cartoon villian who enjoys masterbating to pictures of dead bodys or was it dead babies? I forget anyway what were we talking about?

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Deleted User

Oct 19, 2019 00:34

INCEL STEVE I'VE MISSED YOU f**kER!

And you're wrong everyones got arseholes.... And i get that old metal heads also suffer senility, so to explain we was talking about different treatments for when you can't get it up over dead babies or pictures of dead bodies held by dead babies.

Also i'm a seriously nice guy

blackmetalsteve6

Oct 19, 2019 02:38

I'm not nice, f**k u and ur cat, how u been? I don't care eat s**t, tell ur mom I said hi.

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Deleted User

Oct 19, 2019 02:53

f**king cat left... So sad... Been trying to bait a new one to come over but i swear the cat deciding this was its new house has to be an organic decision, one cannot force mr cat butt to stay.

I've been pretty f**king stoked, we have an ice head next door to me who got finally evicted so thank f**k i can finally not sleep because i can't sleep not cause week long parties next to me.

Oh my mum is fine, she said hi and f**king pay up before you come back. She told me she thinks you're also a "very nice guy" she said anyone who pays on time is ok with her.

blackmetalsteve6

Oct 19, 2019 03:39

I ain't paying her s**t, go to church f**khole.
I got a new song coming out called " Ali is a gay white American man and Muhammed is his boyfriend". Cant wait for the Muslims to blow up a school bus full of kids so I can have some new p**n to w**kerbate to

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Deleted User

Oct 19, 2019 03:49

Did you just tell me to go to church.... "That isn't a very nice thing to say" But you need to keep the topic on track, so i'm going to be seriously nice guy and tell everyone to avoid blackmetal as it leads to awesomeness.

But seriously how do you strap explosives on a kid? now little timmy on the bus, when you get to the school yell out alu snack bar and tell everyone its not a f**king star wars reference before saying the joker made me do it cause that movie. "Seriously its a trap"

But the honest problem i think is no one is telling the kids the world is changing, to many are like me half way in between a generation and once where you saw a person or the like, now you can just ghost them from a snap and be the nice guy/girl without leaving the land of vidya.

blackmetalsteve6

Oct 19, 2019 05:14

Yea s**t is all sideways story's from wayside school, I cant believe the s**t these sjw kids are saying and doing, they have no idea themselves and the scary part is they realize it too, they want to think they are the new civil rights movement but the truth is they will go down in history as the civil wrongs movement.
"My opinions and ignorance make me right, agree with me or we will fight!"
'millennial war' by locustsoul

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Deleted User

Nov 2, 2019 17:51

So I don't know how old this post is, I'm uncovering dust from the tomes as I explore.

The nice guy feed...the nice guy...it depends on who they interact with. All people in this world feed off of energy and have different energy types they place themselves into.

My point is...who cares, only you know what you need or want. You don't need to worry about or agree with anyone. Only make a decision to learn and experience from. Decisions or choices make who and what we are...human. So who's gonna jump off of a mountain and glide in a wing suit...that'll be me...seriously.

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Deleted User

Nov 2, 2019 19:12

Dag, look at the date of the first post and it shows the date. If you comment in an old post it takes it to the top all over again.
Also i really dont understand your reply??

LazyArtist

Nov 2, 2019 19:52

I like to makr peoplr laugh so I used a lot of jokes about how s**tty I am, but I feel like I make it pretty obvious I'm joking. Does that count as being a "nice guy"? God I hope not.

Um moved to Mumbridge

Nov 2, 2019 20:14

BlackmetalSteve, didn't you get the memo?


Just because you're into black metal, doesn't mean you have to act like such a c**t. You're not impressing anyone here with that nasty attitude. This post is about nice guys, not a place to submit your nasty views.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 02:42

I get literally a view a year. Everything involving a girl's attraction revolves around looks and perceived wealth and status. Never even get a chance to know me because I'm already discarded within a second.
Ever notice 95% of girls profiles say something like "If you have a beard and tattoos I'll probably marry you".
They couldn't give a s**t about personality. That's why people say girls only love guys who treat them like s**t. It's the truth.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 03:17

^ this is why you get one view a year dude.. You have this delusion that girls "what your post said" which is a load of s**t.
The stereotype of girls like arseholes is one of men with no balls who don't have the courage to
A: ask a girl out or
B: accept when you do and she says not interested its not your fault
C: You only put in tokens hoping to get a "sorry for my Australian" root. You forget they're people and you hate them because they won't put out or find someone like me to date who isn't bitching about how girls are all arseholes.

Hai my name is Chad and this has been a public service announcement about how not every f**king girl wants to f**k you because you exist or are nice to her.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 03:20

I get literally a view a year. Everything involving a boys attraction revolves around looks and perceived wealth and status. Never even get a chance to know me because I'm already discarded within a second.
Ever notice 95% of boys profiles say something like "If you have big tiddied goth girl and ***** I'll probably marry you".
They couldn't give a s**t about personality. That's why people say guys only love girls who treat them like s**t. It's the truth.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 03:40

I hate having to agree with Malkie. Girls will not reply if you have no bio. If you can't make the effort we won't.
Um, let black metal steve spout that sh1t as it warns girls to avoid him, that can only be a good thing!

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 03:51

Ouch? I'm not that f**king pai- well maybe a little.

Rain sorry but BMS is actually either a funny f**ker or a funny f**ker. He gets the joke you see. But we guys think we know a girls mind, cause we're dudes. GIRLS LOVE A$$HOLES! cause we think it... Oh i saw someone with an arsehole empirical proof that its a thing.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 07:42

Yet again just nonsense. You can reply if you don't even view. I had a lovely bio but no one read it in years so what's the point. So many girls profiles just say "eh I'll fill this in later" and it's fine because they know guys will do all the work. It's amazing how you guys know someone's personality without talking to them. Proper thick people on here Can't even read. Oh well. Enjoy all your little games with each other

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 07:46

And of course denial denial denial deflection and its never your fault.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 07:54

You being unable to read or think is my denial? Ok...

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:07

Yes yes cry moar the other guy and you would get along great, he can teach you about lookmaxing and give you that more defined jaw and you can be his power bottom.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:10

Is this how you impress the ladies? No substance just the weakest attempts at being funny ever? Explains a lot. It's ok to be jealous of this guy, but to be happy for him and wish him the best is when you've grown. Enjoy your mlp and nap time with your warm milk

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:15

Um yes? I'm the white knight who's getting so much trim bonsai trees ask me for advice.....

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:16

No wishing anyone happiness or the best when they're incels... Just no.. That is how we get shootings at batman movies.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:23

Sees he can't mess with me and tries to get me on side against the other guy.
You clearly don't know what incel means

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:30

Dude i was implying you're both butt buddies? i don't care about you let alone want you on side? WHO are you? nothing and no one like mr colonicus.

Last reply from me for a moment fallout 76 is on. And i need to get laid, and make atomic laugh more. And get laid.. Like shag pile carpet. Since i used 2 s*x words in one sentence i'm extra incel.

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:31

Wait you're 22 you idiot when you did first start on those 60 girls? Coming out of your mother doesn't count as s*x... But if you came back in her

You're so easy its kinda laughable.. Gotta make a coffee, then i'll deal with you some more

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 08:57

I can't believe you're still angry typing away.... Malkie won you are nothing. I mean Malkie 1 you 0 I mean laff shouldn't you be having s*x by now?

lmao

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Deleted User

Nov 3, 2019 11:58

No no black metal is fun but i CALLED him that cause i know he's soft and it would have as much effect as a pillow on polio..
Its just a theme cause i've got little else bar to call out this horror knowing one day it will be a form of religion

brb fallout.

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Deleted User

Nov 4, 2019 13:35

If you’re really swimming in so much püssy, why are you even here? Just to regale us all with your stories about slaying so much vagina? Well you could have picked a less obscure corner of the internet, there are maybe 15 full time participants in this whole forum.

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Deleted User

Nov 4, 2019 20:48

^ what he said.

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Deleted User

Nov 4, 2019 22:51

Actually to detail a little more.. Screw capt colon.. I mean being a streamer and just dropping twich for youtube or microsoft would be drowning those poor boys in trim AND more cash that capt will ever see.

So yeah i'm not takind advice from him, i'm starting my own youtube channel... -_-

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Deleted User

Nov 4, 2019 22:54

I’ll totally watch that.

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Deleted User

Nov 4, 2019 22:58

But i am not even kidding, one guy signed to microsoft for 50 mil.... another is going over to youtube and getting paid.. This is is like i slept with 60 girls and i have money? "so what?"

Oh i used to actually do a thing before it was cool, the goth and the gay it was called. But yeah its still sad the delusions some people suffer, but more sad i even wasted time trying to save the poor child. luckily i'll never know anything about life bar the s*x i lack

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Deleted User

Nov 4, 2019 22:59

*guy

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Deleted User

Nov 5, 2019 00:36

What?

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Deleted User

Nov 5, 2019 00:40

Separate post for that now malkie. I still dont get it thou.

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Deleted User

Nov 5, 2019 00:48

I dun either. I want to believe in this... But its just not quite slotting in.

ctsvbullet

Nov 5, 2019 01:03

i thought this coudnt get anymore wackyer

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Deleted User

Nov 5, 2019 01:06

f**k off you, ya saw the word slipknot and now you're here But that was another post. And it can totes get wackier.

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Deleted User

Nov 6, 2019 20:26

Ah, I think I'm home with all these Jimmies being rustled...
Oh right, next thread!

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Deleted User

Nov 6, 2019 21:50

Welcome to the forum, lol.

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Deleted User

Nov 7, 2019 11:17

Im exactly like that guy you described OP...its a curse. Curse of the dishonest "nice" guy. I hated myself and i was ready to kill myself over a girl that didnt like me back the same way. I thought i was going to die alone too.

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Deleted User

Nov 11, 2019 14:59

fine, i'm a nice guy who is also an asshole but will hear you out and won't go on and on about my past ex's, least it was honest, you be the judge judy

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Deleted User

Nov 12, 2019 08:01

I've seen this exact post word for word before not sure if on here or facebook by someone else.
Just wondering how many girls this guy has dated and cried in front of
Or did the op just copy and paste from somewhere else

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Deleted User

Nov 15, 2019 04:09

The f**k 😂😂😂😂😂 f**king beta males

Sceleratis

Nov 15, 2019 05:17

Yeah my little sister got entrapped with a prick like that once she stayed with him for five years out of fear that he was going to leave and is now so co-dependent she had to move out of state just to get away from him and his antics he used to use the if you leave I feel like I'd kill myself excuse I'm still holding my breath in anticipation to see his name pop up in the news

Sumguy182

Nov 18, 2019 07:43

This cheered me up this morning

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Deleted User

Nov 18, 2019 08:04

Which part sorry?

I find amusing being called alpha and beta or omega and thinking i am not your second or a biblical reference but hey cuck all you wanna.

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Deleted User

Nov 18, 2019 23:09

Imagine if that god said he was the A and the Z, people would have thought he was nuts.

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Deleted User

Nov 18, 2019 23:16

He did didn't he!?!? I am the alpha and the omega and i totes played fallout 3

The Dirty Rotten Imbecile

Nov 22, 2019 17:31

seems like some people are on here to be meme lords rather than making relationships.

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Deleted User

Nov 22, 2019 23:37

Even edgelords need their edgyladies. /kek /kikistan

I mean my girl bestie is just like me. We SO should have done something long ago but to late now So yeah argue that.

The Dirty Rotten Imbecile

Nov 23, 2019 00:07

she's taken and you were too late i presume? if she's not married, you never know, you may have another shot

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Deleted User

Nov 23, 2019 01:10

Must of been hence i'm here? "not sure how to reply to that honestly" I think i've had some amazing people in my life and lost a few also. Comes with age.

But i KNOW for a fact there are PLENTY of young edgeladies who'd likely give YOU a run for your money. I'd pay to watch that

The Dirty Rotten Imbecile

Nov 23, 2019 17:03

still cheeky, you might have another shot if you practice patience like i am, being that my real last name is edge, i get a free pass and am allowed to be as edgy as i desire without judgement, comes with the damnation and honor of having a cool last name

Max

Dec 17, 2019 01:37

whoa man

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Deleted User

Dec 17, 2019 03:07

Its weird reading this when i have been blocked by people leol

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Deleted User

Dec 17, 2019 14:02

Same. I kinda wish I wasn’t blocked by that one incel guy, he was fun to kick around. Ahh well. I’m sure there’ll be another one along shortly.

JsL

Aug 24, 2020 23:43

What the hell ? What a cuck

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Deleted User

Aug 25, 2020 02:06

Why are people digging up fossil threads? I mean I get that this site is boring, but damn.

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Deleted User

Aug 25, 2020 02:45

Newbies trawling thru old posts and commenting.

Sharon A

Aug 25, 2020 10:51

I think people are just so terrified of how the dating world is these days, with ghosting, and all the other stuff

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Deleted User

Aug 25, 2020 13:25

The dating world isn't the problem. People are becoming less interesting and seem to be demanding 'banter' or entertaining and distraction from the monotony of doing the same things all the time.

Don't forget you're only one wrongly construed message or a swipe or even a joke from someone else away from being ignored and forgotten. So be more interesting...

Thrones

Aug 25, 2020 16:29

Forgot about this thread🤣🤣

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Deleted User

Aug 25, 2020 18:54

So many posts by Deleted User. Hate that guy.

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Deleted User

Aug 26, 2020 03:00

Yeah damn that guy for having an even better system for being here... But a few of those are my deleted comments when i have a giant cry at people then quit discord or here

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Deleted User

Aug 26, 2020 14:37

A few are from that witty Britt girl too. Yes, I had a crush on her.

Gothicvamp777

Jun 11, 2021 05:12

Sounds like you got trust issues, I wouldn't wanna be you. You're way too shallow, sorry!

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Deleted User

Jun 11, 2021 06:21

Life is 10% bullsh*t and the Rest of the pie is how you react to it And if somebody makes a personal post and you go off like a stubbed toe in the night You're probably One of the culprits out there doing it but then again what do I know
"I'm a popstar not a doctor" (drake) 🤣😝

Loki

Jun 11, 2021 08:54

ooof.... better not read my profile then, i guess im that guy lol
although the crying is a bit pathetic, come on man, you leave that for when your alone in your room being crushed by your thoughts lol

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Deleted User

Jun 11, 2021 14:13

Ohhh this was a classic. Some of my greatest hits are on here!

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 12, 2021 22:52

1st rule of nice guy club, never self proclaim yourself as a nice guy.

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Deleted User

Jun 12, 2021 22:56

2nd rule of nice guy club is not to say
" I'll never hurt you" (upset you) usually bull

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 12, 2021 23:08

Guys should take a leaf outta girl's books, you never hear about anyone calling themself a nice girl. (Generally because they're not).

Loki

Jun 12, 2021 23:10

tbh i never hear a girl say anything, they generally let you do all the hard work. take a leaf out of a girls book and youd just be both staring at each other until one blinks.

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Deleted User

Jun 12, 2021 23:19

Lmao touchè

I'm actually a genuinely nice person.
Also can be a prick, mostly based on other persons behaviour...

Nah you all been dating the wrong girls my friends

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 12, 2021 23:40

@Loki haven't you been single forever? Whatever tactics you have been using, they've been just as effective...

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 12, 2021 23:41

@Meg oops you've just broken the first rule of nice guy club.

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Deleted User

Jun 12, 2021 23:43

@raz he said he's never had a girl, I think..

Also not a guy so I haven't.... Also not broke the nice girl code as there isn't one 😂

Loki

Jun 13, 2021 00:03

forever alone lol
i has excuse though, i probably retarded, i dont even like answering phone calls or voice chats.
probably wouldnt meet anyone even if i did get someone wanting to go out with me which makes me on dating sites rather pointless and i usually just end up troll messaging everyone instead lol

☢️Vic Rattlehead☢️

Jun 13, 2021 00:11

Massive retard

Loki

Jun 13, 2021 00:13

yus, but that is lifes way of balancing traits.
they cant just make me this s*xy without giving me a debuff somewhere.

☢️Vic Rattlehead☢️

Jun 13, 2021 00:16

And that remark makes you a full mongoloid. Well done!

Loki

Jun 13, 2021 00:20

fear the powah of the mongoloid!
i am Genghis Khant!

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 13, 2021 00:25

You're too used to running solo. You either accept that you're not a people person and jump into things anyway, or resign yourself away rather than dipping your toes in and then quickly with drawing everytime.

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Deleted User

Jun 13, 2021 00:28

" resign yourself away rather than dipping your toes in and then quickly with drawing everytime"

Can relate 😂

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 13, 2021 00:50

Even the most accommodating of people have a limit of how much yo-yoing they can endure. Why bother beginning something if you dont intend to see it to it's natural end.

I used to want to get a meet done sooner than later, so not to prolong something that reality could determine a lot more swiftly than months of text tennis could amount to. Virus put a stop to that though.

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Deleted User

Jun 13, 2021 00:58

Me personally isn't anything to do with no intention or I wouldn't bother with it in the first place but I have my reasons.

Truth.

emperorroberto

Jun 13, 2021 03:04

Idk?Nice guys get upset because women usually seem to give them more s**t but then they still can be like any other guy when they see they have what's the word just have the girl wrapped around their finger.

emperorroberto

Jun 13, 2021 03:08

I mean hell there's lots of problems w women,then don't want someone too nice because i think they don't trust him or don't want to hurt him or some s**t but yet keep complaining about the assholes.Women put up w too much s**t for too many years and have changed so now it's everyone trying to f**k over each other

emperorroberto

Jun 13, 2021 03:26

Just completley read post.Most men don't act like that and don't blame her for not wanting to have anything to do w him.

cloud

Jun 14, 2021 17:52

as someone who had depression for a long time since i was 5 and worked it out by making art, picking up a guitar, building and learning and doing fun things, this is the way to deal with real depression.

reading her post i don’t think he had depression
i think it’s manic bipolar schizo

the only time i cry is when i eat mushrooms 😆from laughing

i want a girlfriend not a counselor lol
i don’t blame her either because i wouldn’t want to be someone’s counselor on the very first date
definitely buzzkill

i don’t blame her either roberto

Loki

Jun 14, 2021 18:01

i think part of it was depression. part of it something else which could be any large number of things.

Loki

Jun 14, 2021 18:01

dude needs help anyway though, which he wont get and probably cant get help, will probably end in suicide.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Jun 14, 2021 23:00

Well concidering this post is coming up to being 2 years old... what was, is now a has, on whatever will be will be.

emperorroberto

Jun 14, 2021 23:43

I play bass along yo songs as i really don't know how to play and it isn't hooked up to an amp.It is fun but really doesn't help.My depression is neccessary.

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Deleted User

Jun 15, 2021 12:36

Sometimes dudes will start talking about themselves if the woman doesn't say much.

Loki

Jun 15, 2021 12:40

^ aye.

so many dating sites women say nothing and expect to sit back and have everyone go to them. then the dude just has to think of something to say that he knows of, and what else do you know better than yourself? lol and you want to get the girl to know you, so you begin talking about yourself... and so if you want a real relationship and acceptance you then start talking about the bad things about yourself, possibly as a test to see if she can accept the worst of you. if she cant then theres no point being with her and may aswell end it there and then, she failed the test.

emperorroberto

Jun 15, 2021 12:43

Yeah,that can happen but they need to try also asking questions about her and then some stuff they take personal but this guy while i think he is a nice guy but he just needed time and she's obviously not going to want him.Then there use to be a guy pretending to be sensative to get girls but that would be going too far.

 

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