pattylovesbotdf

Mar 28, 2026 16:12

my paypal info is PBrightwell202

Cyberspace oddity

Mar 28, 2026 16:29

This will be deleted as spam Miss. Good luck to you.

pattylovesbotdf

Mar 28, 2026 16:36

Umm it’s not a spam but okay lol 😂

Baba Yaga

Mar 28, 2026 19:49

I can send you some spam
And potatoes. Meal for at least 2 dinners if you portion it right.

sportsbitch

Mar 28, 2026 21:43

spam post

Slothpenguin

Mar 29, 2026 00:06

Ive checked the rules, no don't ask for money. Then again I think it's pretty obvious begging isn't really what the forum is for! Anthony says he's loaded so ask him, he's paid women plenty of times but not for the same reasons!

Neon™

Mar 29, 2026 00:54

I am at a point where I don't trust or believe anyone with sob stories who readily post their PayPal and Cash app accounts on websites. Food banks exist, charities, homeless shelters, soup kitchens, unemployment, etc.

Midnightbelladonna

Mar 29, 2026 02:14

I do believe people sometimes genuinely need help, especially financially. I’ve helped someone myself once a girl who needed money to take her cat to the vet. So I do believe in human kindness.
At the same time, it’s difficult when you don’t really know who someone is. Sharing personal details with strangers online can feel a bit risky.

What makes me a bit cynical is that I’ve had guys in the past who talked a lot about how generous they were. Not in a creepy “buying someone” way, but promising things like supporting me so I could focus on being creative and not worry about practical stuff. It all sounded very grand but when I actually needed a bit of help once, after they had encouraged that whole idea, suddenly there was nothing.
That annoyed me more than if they had never said anything at all. I would never have asked if they hadn’t been the ones insisting how supportive they were. If a guy tells me anything similar nowadays, I see it as a warning sign to run away.

Ironically, when I once had trouble with my eyes and needed help, the person who actually stepped up wasn’t most of my long-time friends from school it was a male friend who was himself living on social care.
That experience stuck with me. Sometimes the people who have the least are the ones who are the most willing to help.

And have to add for social help, doesn’t always help! I know how s**tty they operate sometimes so no don’t trust them either. I’ve heard stories.

IAMEYK

Mar 29, 2026 03:04

If you're genuine, try the local food banks or emergency food assistance programs. Sounds like you qualify for them. That's if Trump and the GOP haven't demolished the assistance programs in your area.

IAMEYK

Mar 29, 2026 03:14

Oops Neon already made that suggestion

Neon™

Mar 29, 2026 04:33

@Midnight I get that, and while I am a woman, I have heard so many stories from men about women using dating apps looking for simps to scam. I don't give money to strangers with no proof that they actually need it. The economy is s**t, everyone is struggling. I also don't expect strangers to blindly give me money either.

Midnightbelladonna

Mar 29, 2026 04:41

@Neon™ I know we’re all struggling, which is why I understand the thread starter reaching out. It’s great that you’re offering supportive advice.

Slothpenguin

Mar 29, 2026 05:21

I think food banks, etc is pretty obvious. Getting food isn't that difficult, asking someone for a something is easy enough which is why im very suspicious. Even work mates would help with food.

Midnightbelladonna

Mar 29, 2026 05:30

@Slothpenguin I get why it might seem easy, but in reality asking coworkers can be tricky. Even a rough month can be misread professionally, and sometimes it’s safer to reach out outside work.