Equal Pay Jay

Mar 22, 2026 23:56

Take some time out for yourself, get a hobby, maybe learn the correct use case of uppercase letters.

My Chemical Remix

Mar 22, 2026 23:57

*Takes Notes*

sportsbitch

Mar 23, 2026 00:09

dont be a lil bitch and work out, forget yur ex focus on yourself, go on a hike or explore a abandoned place, f**k go to a concert, chill with friends just don't spend your days inside

if that isn't working out then say f**k it pick up some extra hours at work make some extra money

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 00:16

You right, sitting inside alone only festers it lol

FwiFfOooO o

Mar 23, 2026 00:48

TURN YOUR LOVE TO HATE THEN TAKE YOUR ANGER OUT ON OTHER PEOPLE

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 00:52

I used to be like that, but for some reason it's different this time lol.

FwiFfOooO o

Mar 23, 2026 00:54

don't worry people are replaceable and stop being a poopy baby bitch baby poo peee urinating baby

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 01:02

Some easier than others lol

FwiFfOooO o

Mar 23, 2026 01:05

that's what they all say!!!

FwiFfOooO o

Mar 23, 2026 01:05

hey bub what era of ancient history do you like

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 01:10

Yea maybe its just a first love issue.

Ancient Egypt lol

FwiFfOooO o

Mar 23, 2026 01:21

ancient egypt is very cool

FwiFfOooO o

Mar 23, 2026 01:21

ancient egypt is very cool

sportsbitch

Mar 23, 2026 01:22

ancient egypt is very cool

sportsbitch

Mar 23, 2026 01:23

ancient egypt is very cool

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 01:28

Indeed It Is.

shadowfilth

Mar 23, 2026 01:52

Change of scenery if you can, turn your phone off, push yourself into activities you haven't done before, out of sight out of mind. Heed my advice.

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 02:07

I'd love to man, but i can't get out currently due to bad weather and i'm at the point of anxiety attacks. With no friends around it's a struggle. s**tty excuses, but the suffer is real.

Neon™

Mar 23, 2026 04:42

Have you tried any meetup groups to make friends? I found what helped me most with my breakups was devoting time to building my social circle and doing fun things. When you're too busy to dwell you'll heal faster

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 05:02

Where are these groups? Online? If you mean here in town it's basically non existent. You're absolutely right though. Would some other kind of social media be of help? instagram? snapchat? maybe they would help me locate some kind of group.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Mar 23, 2026 06:44

Realise that nothing lasts forever, and when the sun finally explodes all history of earth will be as if none of this ever existed. All we have is now, and none of it is important.

My Chemical Remix

Mar 23, 2026 06:54

I think we'll all be long gone by the time the sun explodes lol

Nightcrawler1986

Mar 23, 2026 07:17

Rage room let the anger out smash some s**t up. Then focus on you and what makes you happy. I got piercings and tattoos to make me feel better.

shadowfilth

Mar 23, 2026 07:56

Neon is right but building social circles these days can require a ton of effort. If you're anxious, I'm telling you that trying to get out even for a little bit will help clear your head. Do you have friends or family out of town you can hit up? Now's the time to hit people up.

Midnightbelladonna

Mar 23, 2026 09:17

You’re going to feel bad for a while, and it comes in stages. First, you miss them. Then there’s that phase where part of you wants them back or maybe you don’t, but it still hurts just as much. After that, anger can show up. Then you might feel off again, and eventually you reach a point where you’re actually glad you didn’t stay in that relationship.
All of this takes time. I know people say “go out and distract yourself,” but honestly, don’t force anything. If you feel like staying home, that’s ok too. Being by yourself can also be part of healing.
For me, I had to go through it in my own way. I watched those cliché youtube videos and sat with the feelings until I got so tired of feeling low that I slowly started making small changes. At first, I stayed in and kept to myself. Then, after a while, I began taking short walks even in snowy, stormy weather. Somehow, that helped.
Eventually, things started to calm down. But it didn’t happen overnight.

emperorroberto

Mar 23, 2026 09:39

I mean yeah find other things to take your mind off of her but to tell the truth it really takes time to pass by.

emperorroberto

Mar 23, 2026 09:40

Midnightbelladonna probably covered what I said?

Paris

Mar 23, 2026 10:37

Hi. I'm not sure what advice i could give, but im happy to talk with you if you need it. i never made many in real life friends so i'm quite used to talking over the internet by now over a few years. Sometimes it's easy to get swept up in others opinions if you truly want them but at the same time it's also important to not lose yourself in others decisions and to think or do things for yourself. sorry if this doesn't make much sense. i am autistic so i struggle to communicate my thoughts very well. However from reading your profile i do see how you find it harder to connect with the "younger folk" like i am. I will agree on others points though that it will take a long time, however everyone is different and not everyone's path is straight nor linear, some could take shorter or longer than others but you shouldnt compare yourself it will only make your feelings worse. Sorry if this didn't help.

Paris.

Midnightbelladonna

Mar 23, 2026 11:04

It’s good to tell it your way.
Sometimes two similar thoughts could also help. One maybe scroll my long one so your could help too!

@ emperorroberto

Equal Pay Jay

Mar 23, 2026 11:18

OP has improved already i'm so prood