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Instant nopes on online dating

Samwisethewise Created Dec 12, 2023 19:18
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I'm sure we've all been on, or are currently on, online dating apps, but what are some of your instant nopes when trying to decide which way to swipe?

For me:
Every photo has a filter,
Mentioning trash TV/music,
Bucket hats,
Liverpool or Chelsea football shirts,
Cats (don't hate me, I'm allergic),
Every photo has same outfit,
Mentioning a sugar daddy/money
Obvious lip filler surgery

 

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Deleted User

Dec 12, 2023 19:43

For guys -

Profile is about me is just a complaint example "stop putting group photos I'm not poor" or "ditch the duck lips" they can not swipe and it seems really entitled to think women should cater to what they want on a profile especially when they wrote nothing about themselves.

Random photos of things like cars and once three different shots of the same s**t mid 80's fireplace.

Photo of crotch only 🙄

Looking for someone to get married and have kids with.

For women specifically -

Anyone with the "if you can't handle me at my worst you don't deserve me at my best" kind of quotes.

Looking for a unicorn or in a relationship and suddenly bicurious poly etc.

General -

Anyone who is ace, just not compatible.

People who live insanely far away.

Self proclaimed far right people.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 12, 2023 20:02

1. "Just ask"/their height as the only thing they have in their bio
2. Shirtless mirror selfies
3. Weird ranting about how much they hate women/dating in their profile
4. "good vibes only"

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Deleted User

Dec 12, 2023 20:36

Any app that requires somebody to just swipe is an instant no for me. Also people who rant about their ex kinda tells me they're not ready to move on yet

Mercurius Mesmerize

Dec 12, 2023 21:29

One time on pof... I messaged someone who had a very basic generic profile "I like having fun with friends, going out, staying in"... that sort of nothing info. So I fired off a few random questions, trying and find something I can work with... and not only did she respond but she angrily responded, accusing me of sending her a copy & paste message. (That's what you get for putting in some effort).

Well I said it wasn't, and if she actually had something in her plain profile I could have brought up I wouldn't have had to pull some random questions out the air. Funnily enough, if she wasn't triggered she probably wouldn't have responded at all. Like... I'm just messaging to to tell you I'm not messaging you!

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Deleted User

Dec 12, 2023 21:48

I remember coming across someone who answered everything with "ask me" and then got angry about me asking her questions

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Deleted User

Dec 12, 2023 22:05

I had someone match me on bumble once and shoot me a generic message that I responded to, and then she got insanely irrate for me talking to her going on about how she wasn't over her dead husband.

Like okay ma'am. Why are you on a dating site, matching me, and messaging me if you don't want to talk? Get your s**t sorted out.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Dec 12, 2023 22:11

I guess you could say she still digged his ex...

Mercurius Mesmerize

Dec 12, 2023 22:11

Her ex... even.

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Deleted User

Dec 12, 2023 23:44

As Neon said the ‘just ask’ thing, I’m like ‘no, I don’t wanna ask your boring ass anything because clearly you’re lazy aswell if you can’t write a short bio’

Turkey teeth - Teeth white than snow are that were done abroad don’t look good. Especially with the orange fake tan a lot of people wanna use these days, no, just no.

Any Man that has the football team they support in their bio, just gives me a massive icky feeling.

Anyone with their Snapchat in their bio or a holiday picture that says ‘take me back’ f**k off Kyle (they’re usually called Kyle)


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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 04:56

Jay: Wanna talk about stuff? Ears man. What you doing? Spying on me? Eaves dropping? Red flag

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 05:20

GOBBLESS HOSS. THE LITTLE DRUMER BOY WAS MY FAVROT. NEVER THOT HE WAS A SPY

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 13, 2023 05:21

CAN'T TRUST THEM TYPES, TRYIN TO TAKE OUR FREEDOM

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 05:22

FREEDOM AIN'T FREE! HEARD THAT FROM THE RADIO MAN WONCE

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 13, 2023 05:23

AINT THAT THA TRUTH, GOBBLESS

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 13:57

The lip filler pictures provide unintentional comedy, when the top lip juts out so far it casts a shadow that looks like a pencil moustache that George Orwell would have been proud of. I can't help chuckling at it, and I make no apologies.

The "just ask" thing as has been mentioned, to me it reeks of entitlement in that they feel they're above having to put in a bit of effort. Everyone else can do that for them. Nah.

The stock clichés annoy me as well, the ten-a-penny rubbish like looking for "my lobster", "my last first kiss", "my best mate who I fancy the pants off" or "someone to match my energy" (whatever the f**k that even means).

And, I hope this doesn't come across badly, but one gargantuan red flag for me is when there's a list of mental health issues and not much else in the profile. I'll bet my mortgage there's a lot of "self-diagnosis" going on here and trying too hard to be "individual". It belittles the subject of mental health, I worked in the field for 18 years and it quite frankly pisses me off to see people trying to use mental health conditions as personality quirks. It is, of course, healthy to be open about the subject but this is glorying in it and using it for "wannabe f**ked up kid" kudos which is anything but helpful. There isn't much of this on mainstream dating sites but I've seen a fair few profiles on here like that. It's not a good look.

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 15:01

@Ozzy: Why is it that you regularly and unprompted bring up people with fake pictures or accounts? I've seen it multiple times now that just out of nowhere you either say others fall for fake accounts, people on here all have fake accounts, that people accuse you of stealing pictures, etc.

It seems a bit strange to be so fixated on....

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 15:14

Because he's fake.

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 15:18

So you're saying it's projection? *shocked pikachu face*

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 15:30

Most likely....

Anthony55

Dec 13, 2023 16:17

Catfish profiles are you talking to a man instead of a cute girl .

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 16:43

Can also be an ugly girl instead of a cute girl. Doesn't always have to be a man lol.

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 16:46

There loads of fake men profiles,
Sometimes you turn one down they go crazy ,you block them and they make a fake profile to talk to you but it doesn't take long for work out

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 13, 2023 19:04

I'd like to think I am not a catfish..... But I am definitely a fish of some variety

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 13, 2023 19:04

Possibly a halibut

Samwisethewise

Dec 13, 2023 19:21

Catfish seems unfair. There are better fish to use as the name for someone who lies about what they are.

For example:

Pilot fish - uses a bright lure on it's head to lure it's prey.

Hagfish - secretes tons of slime when agitated

Goblin shark - hides a second mouth that extends entirely away from its body to bite.

Big Fin Squid - terrifying deep sea squid that looks like an alien and is unfathomably large

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 19:26

#clownfish

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 20:22

Stonefish. Hides in plain sight, but ungodly toxic once identified (usually by stepping on it)

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Deleted User

Dec 13, 2023 20:23

@Jay: Are you a pretty ballerina?

Sharon A

Dec 13, 2023 23:01

If they're holding a fish in the photo

Xoto.Pill

Dec 13, 2023 23:22

“I’m 6’2” because apparently that’s important.”
Dude, no it’s not, no-one asked and no-one cares.

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 04:53

Any Chick that says they were abused or in a toxic relationship. Which is 98%.

Darkhorse1215

Dec 14, 2023 07:01

That happens to some people, but is often fake vulnerability put out as bait by female covert narcs.

Darkhorse1215

Dec 14, 2023 07:02

Speaking of fish, what about a trouser trout?

lokiinlove

Dec 14, 2023 12:59

Lack of cats
Looks like a cheap p**n star
Only watches soaps and reality tv
Loves Coldplay

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 13:23

For me it's more of a red flag if they do own cats. Every toxic girl I've ever met besides one had a pet cat. And the craziest girl I ever met had several cats. I'm sure there are some nice girls somewhere out there who own cats though 😂

Mercurius Mesmerize

Dec 14, 2023 13:54

Cat people are crazy in general... yeah that's right, I said you're all CrAZy... what of it?

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 14, 2023 13:58

Bird people are on another level of weird though.... 🤣

Samwisethewise

Dec 14, 2023 14:03

I don't understand cats, every time someone says their cat is nice it's because it exhibits dog like behaviour.

Just get a dog instead of a tiny murder machine that makes annoying noises.

Also, cats don't have the expressive faces. They can convey rage, shock, disgust and indifference.

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 14:47

Give me cats over dogs any day, cats are that superior to dogs it's not even a comparison.

Cats are happy to bugger off and do their own thing for hours, days on end and will engage with you on their terms. I respect that, independence should be encouraged.

Dogs are alright depending on the breed but they're just too needy. The barking is annoying as well. Plus, I've never known an out of control cat to rip someone's face off. It'll just give you a swipe and hiss and never come near you again.

People who don't like cats just don't know how to engage with them.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Dec 14, 2023 16:01

Cats aren't pets. They just use your home as a homeless shelter.

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 16:22

Cats are more like roommates that are just giant balls of gremlin energy

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 14, 2023 16:32

I prefer cats because they're not as noisy or needy tbh

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 16:43

^^^

Knows the score.

Samwisethewise

Dec 14, 2023 17:15

I disagree about the noise thing as the mewling and complaining noise they make constantly goes through me. Anything high pitched I struggle with - sensory thing.
But I know dogs who hardly ever Bork. I even know of one dog who is a very goodboi who has only borked about 4 times his entire life and he's 10.

Samwisethewise

Dec 14, 2023 18:02

He is one dog that is ten years old and he is the goodest boy ever

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 18:41

I have cats and a dog and all of them are assholes lol

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Deleted User

Dec 14, 2023 19:29

I prefer cats, dogs are helpless without you.

Cats are independent

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Deleted User

Dec 15, 2023 01:43

Bird people are definitely weird. I don't think people should keep birds as pets

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Deleted User

Dec 15, 2023 02:12

Red flag 🚩 someone who doesn’t like cats 🐈

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 15, 2023 03:44

It's weird how its socially acceptable to say your hate cats, rodents, reptiles, birds, etc, but if you say you hate dogs the dog brigade comes out to lynch you

Samwisethewise

Dec 15, 2023 03:57

Because dogs are intended to be best friends and workers. They have no other purpose and have been bred to be that way. They are the most domesticated animal on the planet.

All the other animals you listed are wild animals comparatively and would be fine without humans. But dogs need humans and their entire existence is dependent on humans liking them. So when you say you don't like dogs it means they've failed. When you say you don't like cats, it just means cat goes somewhere else and doesn't care

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Deleted User

Dec 15, 2023 04:06

Dogs are protectors man.

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Deleted User

Dec 15, 2023 04:54

Dogs are amazing 🤩

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Deleted User

Dec 15, 2023 08:07

Dogs will chew you're s**t up and s**t on you're shoe

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Deleted User

Dec 15, 2023 08:07

Your*

Mercurius Mesmerize

Dec 15, 2023 11:54

If cats are so independent, why do they need feeding... especially fancy pants cat foods.

Cats used to be employed for barn work keeping mice away from food stocks.

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Deleted User

Dec 16, 2023 00:57

Cats make me sneeze and climb up my curtains. I’ve never had a Dog s**t on my shoe so far 😂 my old cat s**t on my bed once though

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Deleted User

Dec 16, 2023 01:59

Cat s**ts on you're stuff it apparently doesn't like you 🤣 a vet told my friend that bc the cat use shít on her stuff

I remember a friend's dog shít on the open tray of my ps3 .. fun times

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Dec 16, 2023 06:16

This is why I am sticking to houseplants.... They don't s**t at all, much less on anything 🤣

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Deleted User

Dec 16, 2023 08:28

Facts!

Samwisethewise

Dec 16, 2023 16:14

Also, face tattoos. I don't think I've ever seen any face tattoos that looked good.

Samwisethewise

Dec 16, 2023 19:21

If you can afford a face tattoo, you can afford dentures

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Deleted User

Dec 16, 2023 19:22

I don’t like cats much either so I’m not arsed if they like me back or not 😂

Mr Beelzeebubbles

Jan 13, 2024 15:03

Red flag? People who think you have to choose between cats and dogs. Get both!

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Deleted User

Jan 14, 2024 04:23

😶‍🌫️

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Deleted User

Jan 14, 2024 14:47

Right wing people, anyone who says "must love dogs". No I don't have to LOVE anything, particularly your dog. Women who put height requirements - I'm actually tall but I hate that, it's reducing the complexity of a person down to one physical attribute they can't even change, conducting conversations like job interviews - absolutely hate this, very cynical and transactional results in an immediate loss of interest, anything with "accepting applications", instant nope. Anyone who says gaming is "childish" - as opposed to what? A bunch of grown men chasing a ball around a field?

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Deleted User

Jan 15, 2024 17:07

I concur with ozzy. Why use some else's photos? That like a mental illness these days. It's a weird form of spying or stalking.

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Deleted User

Jan 15, 2024 17:47

This was explained to me a while ago, still can't believe folk do this but I knew a lass who arranged to meet up with a guy after messaging, talking on the phone and doing the general preamble. When she got there she found he looked nothing like his pictures so she demanded an explanation, not unreasonably. The gist was "well, I figured since we'd got this far you wouldn't mind too much". 😂 He was hoping she'd think "came all this way, might as well". She didn't.

People are bats**t mental.

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Deleted User

Jan 16, 2024 08:10

For me, I’m not really attracted to leftists/liberals and LGBT people. I’m gay myself, but I think leftism and LGBT ideology is toxic, and I’ve really grown to dislike them. At this point, I’m only attracted to right-leaning men, and most of my attraction is towards masculine men.

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Deleted User

Jan 17, 2024 03:08

There's a super sick problem with gay black men pretending to be white girls on dating apps. I learned after a few phone calls.

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Deleted User

Jan 17, 2024 16:27

Anyone who's been down the youtube rabbit hole and come out thinking they know everyting and it's everyone else who is the idiot.

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Deleted User

Jan 17, 2024 16:29

@mallmothman

What's toxic about caring about other people?

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Deleted User

Jan 17, 2024 18:22

As others said, "just ask." The whole point of a profile is for people to be able to look beyond your profile pic for common interests and possible compatibility before messaging you. To me, that kind of thing makes people look lazy and boring.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Jan 17, 2024 19:41

Mallmothman you're going to have a hard time finding a gay republican mall goth. You may need to broaden your scope

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Deleted User

Jan 17, 2024 22:55

Not long ago he was after a gay mall goth, now he has to be a right-wing gay mall goth as well. It's quite the niche...

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Deleted User

Jan 18, 2024 00:48

Mollmothman, there's no way to say this that doesn't sound awful but maybe speaking to a LGBTQ positive therapist may help with unpacking where those attractions or turn offs come from.

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Deleted User

Jan 18, 2024 17:09

@Mothman: Might be hard to find a partner in general if you are gay and against gay people. Not gonna find a non-lgbt person to enter a gay relationship tbh.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:10

@Coraline: I used to be a liberal, but not anymore. The left is quite literally destroying America, and I can’t be a part of that. Liberals ain’t the angels they claim to be. Conservatives ain’t perfect either, but at least they’re more rational, and they actually care about reality.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:13

@Neon Bright Star ⭐️: As far as I’m concerned, mall goths don’t exactly have a political preference. Most alternative subcultures are left-leaning, but the mall goth subculture is mostly about nu-metal, which is known to have right-wing views. I used to be a leftist myself, but then I started to hate the left.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:13

Wait, the left are LITERALLY destroying America?

Have they got like, really big drills or smth?

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:18

@Jake: Is yapping all you do? You even did this the first time you saw me. I’ve been a center-right person for a while now, and it’s because I hate what the left and the LGBT community have become. Also, the mall goth subculture is a legitimate subculture, which was popular in the ‘90s and 2000s.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:21

@Wunna: I hate the LGBT community because it’s nothing like what it used to be. The T is ruining everything, and even ruining things for us gay people. Trans people are forcing everyone to affirm their delusions, and they’re calling us homosexuals “transphobic” because we won’t date “men” with vaginas, and “women” with penises. Not to mention that trans people are also pushing their agenda on children, and they’re making gay people look bad, because we’re always lumped together.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:22

@WalterLuigi: Gay right-wingers exist, and I may be one of them. I don’t really care about politics that much, but when it’s necessary, I tend to have moderate views.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:24

@JayBeyBladeNumberFour: Pretty much. The left is trying to enforce the idea that men can be women, and women can be men. This whole country was better when Republicans were in power. It all went to s**t when the pandemic started, and Joe Biden took over.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:35

You know you can just eat a slice of the propaganda pie, you dont have to devour the whole thing, right? B)

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:40

@JayBeyBladeNumberFour: The proof is all around me, so there’s no reason for me not to believe. Goddamn libtards.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:47

So, how many trans people have you been forced to have s*x with? Is it upwards of 100?

For me its at least 17

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:49

@JayBeyBladeNumberFour: It’s never happened to me, but I see it happen all the time in the gay community. Trans “men” are calling gay men “transphobic because we want real men that actually have penises, not counterfeits. The same is happening to lesbians, sadly.

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:57

Its so weird i've not seen a news article about it since its happening all the time, but this is jsut like when gay people were forcing straight people to have s*x with them to spread AIDs back in the 80s, somethign which also had no news articles and still has no historical evidence but for realsies happened because trust me bro.

The only reliable source i've found is this one, but its the most accurate one for sure https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r7l0Rq9E8MY

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 14:59

@Mallmothman - Aye, sorry for replying to a thread that you started mate, might be an idea to take that chip off your shoulder and get off your soap box while you're at it. Plenty other places you can spout your right wing drivel.

if you don't want people to "yap", then don't start threads in the first place. No need to throw a tantrum because you're not getting the responses you were hoping for.

And that's me out, you have a great day now. 👍

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Deleted User

Jan 19, 2024 15:04

No Jake, dont leave, we're about to get all the evidence!

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Deleted User

Jan 21, 2024 17:00

Ozz shouldnt you be fighting Anthony, not Walter?

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Deleted User

Jan 21, 2024 19:20

Posing in the mirror in skintight lycra
Insta/snap links
Quotes like "Match my energy"

They persistently love hiking and rock climbing, describe themselves as 'entrepreneurs' who are always up for spontaneous globe trotting adventures and can suddenly drop everything and disappear onto a plane abroad.
Don't these fools have rent and bills to pay?

Morons

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Deleted User

Jan 21, 2024 19:28

Hiking and rock climbing strikes me as the most boring crock of s**t on the planet. And at the risk of changing this from to "instant tropes of online dating", they can shove their Sunday lunch up their arse as well.

While I'm at it, anyone who refers to their pet dog as "the doggo" should be put on a register for life.

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Deleted User

Jan 21, 2024 19:31

Rock climbing is for geeknerds, cool people boulder B)

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 04:48

@Ozz: Lay off the drugs, Chicagoan hookers, and get a better translator tool please. Reading your posts is going to give me a stroke.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Jan 23, 2024 04:56

Ozzy what's with all the hostility? Lmao

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 05:07

He accidentally got venom in his Wheaties again.

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 11:18

I thought Bane was some kinda Mexican, not Ozzy B)

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 18:08

You might say he's the bane of this forums existence

Darkhorse1215

Jan 23, 2024 18:11

How can one kill that which has no life?

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 18:19

By giving it life, then giving it anti-life.

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 18:20

Or maybe a stake to the heart?

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 18:39

We could leave him poor reviews on yelp?

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Deleted User

Jan 23, 2024 18:47

Claim ownership of the website on google reviews then upload silly pictures

Psychopatrish

Feb 2, 2024 22:15

Profile pic of you holding your guitar.

Nobody cares dude.

EVERYONE has BEEN the bass player/ been WITH the bass player @ some point.

Save it for the Ken movie....I promise it won't be superfluous...

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Deleted User

Feb 2, 2024 22:18

What about a keytar?

Psychopatrish

Feb 2, 2024 22:26

If you're Stevie Wonder I'll let a keytar pic pass.

1. You're Stevie Wonder
2. You have no way of knowing how unappealing you look

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Deleted User

Feb 2, 2024 22:30

If i was stevie wonder surely my typing would look something like this:

Hello, i'm stevie wonder(I'm using speech to text)

Psychopatrish

Feb 2, 2024 22:53

Well

You're not Sir Duke.

And don't call me Shirley.

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Deleted User

Feb 2, 2024 23:16

I wont, but i jsut want to let you know, good luck, we're all counting on you

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Deleted User

Feb 2, 2024 23:31

When there's a huge list of no and it's usually generic swerfs, terfs, tories, coppers and landlords ect. Which are the kind that wouldn't want a starving artist type with screaming like a banshee hair.

Those are one type, that just says to me that you're extremely difficult and hard to be around.

Then there's the very shiney people that look like they have been machine polished and made up like proper bimbo's.
"Banta is key" hope nobody ignites a naked flame near them

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Deleted User

Feb 3, 2024 15:19

Banter is key.... oh please die slowly...

Pictures of them with their children, and statements saying 'have X children.... they're my world'

Yes, any decent parent loves their children, it's generally a standard for normal folks... but do you REALLY think a dating app is the right place for photos of your kids?

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Deleted User

Feb 6, 2024 10:43

Women with icks usually are the ickiest

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Deleted User

Feb 7, 2024 03:11

Yeah i hate saying it but FARRRRRKKKKK f**king filters... Its a lie... YES you can do a thing, YES you can have those photos, but if ALL your photos are filtered and then i see you looking totally different to it... Also why all the gym photos? had the discussion with bestie, how its showing their value. "i'm so dated" OUT dated....

As per filters "do debate me" i'm OPEN to hearing WHY its a good thing, but can argue why its a bad one. Not only because you potentially start to see yourself as the filtered images. But please, open to discussion.

But my question, so you INBOX someone.. Now AM I DOING IT WRONG? so you see their profile that says "ask me" and think f**k that noise, sorry i digress but its a point all its own. SO they say oh i'm into A B C D with E but only on K with Y and jelly.
So... I inbox, and say i LOVE K and Y but think jelly is a weird combination, but then say oh A is awesome! do you think B?

Sometimes you'll get no reply, fair call, you're not owed one, but then once i got told "by an arm chair psychogist" i'm TRYING to hard to be quirky and come off as over confident. "how do you do that online?" I said oh, so i shouldn't ask about your profile? showing i take an interest in YOU and your person? then said oh look rewind button, hits it, writes vanilla how are you, do you want to chat? and she said SEE that is better.

But i'm so out of touch with it, i have some ideal that you base a relationship on a friendship and get to know a person and IRL interactions are a thing, but this is the AI virtual world now.

Oh i'm only 5'11 but do make jokes about how i easily hit 6'1 if i have newrocks on.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Feb 7, 2024 06:06

Good to see that Malkie came back

Ranger Pariah

Feb 9, 2024 09:36

Yaya he's back! 🥳

lokiinlove

Feb 11, 2024 12:43

Women that don't like cats
Women that like Coldplay
Women that like reality tv

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Deleted User

Feb 11, 2024 13:33

I gotta be honest, its weird t hat the only musical being brought up here is Cats, why dont people think its a red flag if somebody doesnt like Jesus Christ Superstar?

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Deleted User

Feb 11, 2024 13:39

Oh my instant nopes in dating , is when someone acts the opposite to how they feel .
What's the point in acting uninterested , when you are. It's just childish and pointless

Darkhorse1215

Feb 11, 2024 18:42

Ugh, mind games. No thanks.

lokiinlove

Feb 13, 2024 15:26

Graham Bonnet doesn't like Mind Games either

Gothicvamp777

Feb 13, 2024 17:44

People are turning away from far liberal leftism after seeing liberal leftists go bats**t crazy. The conservative side is the new rebel culture now. Why be a follower of the insane left when you can be a true rebel of the right? Conforming to norms is what leftists are doing now and they claim to be non-conformists. They're frauds!

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Deleted User

Feb 13, 2024 17:59

Vamp, is what you're saying that political left leaning people are an instant nope for you? Like... That's the short version?

Darkhorse1215

Feb 14, 2024 19:57

Lil' ween.

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Deleted User

Feb 14, 2024 20:06

What's happening, anyone catch me up lol

Darkhorse1215

Feb 14, 2024 20:13

Some attention-hungry troll swinging his lil' ween around as if it were a baseball bat.

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Deleted User

Feb 14, 2024 21:15

Ozzy is a pseudo phycologist and believes he is superior to everyone and that we are all friendless dweebs on here. He is on here ergo he is projecting.

💖 Neon™ Waifu 💖

Feb 14, 2024 21:20

Ozzy is butthurt that Walt gets to f**k me and he does't so he's salty. That's my impression.

Kosteevo

Feb 14, 2024 23:37

On topic. People that just want to walk. No destination, just aimless meandering.

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Deleted User

Feb 15, 2024 14:41

I think the people above covered it pretty well. Lol. I live rent free in dudes head.

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Deleted User

Feb 15, 2024 14:42

@Kosteevo: No love for scenic walks to clear your head?

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Deleted User

Feb 16, 2024 02:31

Man it kinda s**ts me, i love that people are like YAY its YOU and i appreciate it. But then no one speaks to anything i have to f**king say, even to just say YOU ya f**king aussie s**t c**t are wrong.

Seriously though, i'm dating a girl who's so much like me yet so not alike it hurts my feels and i love it. We have adult conversations on where to from here? is that how dating works? Do we need to write a "wiki" how to date? cause i swear..

Darkhorse1215

Feb 16, 2024 07:01

I'd actually steer clear of popular, mainstream opinions about what is and isn't healthy in romantic relationships.

Darkhorse1215

Feb 16, 2024 07:03

The fact that you are having "adult" conversations about the trajectory of your relationship means that you are both invested in trying to make it work in the long term. That's a good thing. You aren't f**king around with trivial s**t. You are concentrated on important issues.

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Deleted User

Feb 16, 2024 21:07

Was said above comment TO me? if yes, lets pretend it is.

So in a way i have NO idea what i'm doing? so i have some old school notions of how things work, yet in a way "although confused" try to keep an open mind. I mean i've always been of the opinion that these things are made over time? YES love at first sight is a thing, but to me these things grow and become.

So we've all these people who give advice and thoughts and... wait... mainstream opinions... well s**t i needn't say more. Go with the flow? If it is working for you be happy? OKIES

Kosteevo

Feb 17, 2024 15:29

@walt I don't mind a trail or a hike. I just think I need a purpose. But I more like to relax in any free time I have 😃

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Deleted User

Oct 7, 2024 21:38

The cat thing makes no sense. There are certain breeds of cats that are Hypoallergenic. Mine for instance.
I've met people who I know are allergic and I have fur on my clothes from them lying on me just before I left my house and they don't even notice.

 

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