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Why do I frequently get messaged by men who aren't alt and have no idea what alternative even means? I hate the whole "I want a goth gf" s**t that has been going around and caused men to *****ize us because they think we are all crazy and freaky. I was under the impression this website was for alternative people to find likeminded people.
Edited to explain where I was coming from better.
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Apr 23, 2026 18:54 You should ask them. We dont know. |
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Apr 23, 2026 18:59 What is alt though? |
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Apr 23, 2026 19:13 It's like that meme: Everyone wants a goth GF until she sacrifices you to Baphomet. They like the idea of alt women, but not the person behind it. It's honestly kinda sad lol |
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Apr 23, 2026 19:18 I agree, Andrea. This webiste has honestly been nothing but disappointing to me, and I only log on to read the dumb messages I receive now, lol. |
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Apr 23, 2026 19:56 It used to be really good years ago (: but the popular rise of other social media sites and changing fads kinda killed it lol. |
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Apr 23, 2026 20:19 The proper alt grown up to be honest about how stupid counter culture is.we all pay bills now and some of us daydream about anal. |
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Apr 23, 2026 20:32 @yaga call me 🤙🥴 |
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Apr 23, 2026 20:42
Cant believe OP blcoked me because of my first comment, now i cant see this thread or post on it smh |
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Apr 23, 2026 20:55 Who said that? |
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Apr 23, 2026 21:03 It was some guy but not me i swear! |
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Apr 23, 2026 21:19
@sports hun |
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Apr 23, 2026 23:12 What does it matter? |
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Apr 23, 2026 23:15 The children would not go to bed and blame it on my s*xy friend across the pond. It was early evening then. You know anything about sarcasm Sus? |
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Apr 23, 2026 23:19 Idk, I was asking op, if that means anything... |
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Apr 23, 2026 23:41 It could be that to them being alternative is about choosing your own identity, rather than choosing an outer shell. Admittedly, I don't know what people are saying in their messages to you, though. |
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Apr 24, 2026 01:12
Right?^^^^^ It doesn't really matter what's on the outside. If it did my response to OP would be |
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Apr 24, 2026 01:13
Since the 8os trendy men have gone into rock pubs and clubs as us alt girls are easy/*****/ up for anything/dominatrix |
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Apr 24, 2026 02:55 i mean you see a hot piece on unstable ass your neurons activate, idk what else to say |
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Apr 24, 2026 07:28 Blame cartoon network I guess |
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Apr 24, 2026 10:07
But i like cartoons |
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Apr 24, 2026 11:38 Actually I think OnlyFans is to blame |
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Apr 24, 2026 14:15
I think fětishizing goth girls was a thing long before OnlyFans. |
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Apr 24, 2026 15:08 Onlyfans invented p**n. |
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Apr 24, 2026 15:08 p**n is censored because Neil doesn't want use tlaking about poke mon |
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Apr 24, 2026 15:09 Tlaking is spelled that way because that's my favourite p**n |
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Apr 24, 2026 15:37 I already made a forum post about why aren't just alt people aloud on this site years ago and got a lot of sh-t over it.It makes sense well,how can you always tell?Some people just hang out and like the music. |
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Apr 24, 2026 16:04 I think it is interesting how some assume I am talking about people's appearances. |
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Apr 24, 2026 16:27 Maybe you could elaborate more on what you mean. |
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Apr 24, 2026 17:03 Alternative on the inside, OBVIOUSLY |
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Apr 24, 2026 17:03 @Motyxia Just for the sake of being fair, it does go both ways. This is just my experience but I've been on here 10+ years, and I've had many messages from women asking if I wanted to buy n*des and videos when all I did was try to get to know them. I've had women tell me I'm not alternative because I don't look the stereotype. But, I'm sure it is frustrating and can definitely be creepy to get those kinds of sexual messages. |
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Apr 24, 2026 17:33
Another issue on here very come across is people, men for me that alt means k,ink. |
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Apr 24, 2026 17:51 its lame and tacky to dress alt/goth for men (unless they're gay) the only exception is skinheads but only a certain type of women are fine dating guys like that |
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Apr 24, 2026 20:45 No,I get what you meant but if you had someone regulating who could jon and not it would take time.Obviously appearance would be one thing but WHAT I WAS SAYING IS IT WOULD BE DIFFICULT BECAUSE YOU COULDN'T JUST GO BY APPEARANCES.Goddamn bulls**t after all these years |
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Apr 24, 2026 20:47 Why the f does this site just gives me madness or nothing? |
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Apr 24, 2026 21:51 I kind of agree with Sportbitch. Most dudes can't pull off the alt/goth look. If I dressed like a goth, I'd take one look in the mirror and want to kick my own ass. |
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Apr 24, 2026 22:24 How long do you typically talk to one of these guys OP? |
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Apr 24, 2026 23:40 Why would she talk to them, they're not alternative!!!!1!!!!!!!1!!! |
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Apr 24, 2026 23:44 I'm going somewhere with this... we'll see. |
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Apr 24, 2026 23:55 I dont think you'll get a reply, she replied to one person then ignored everyone else. Nobody in this thread is alternative enough. But on the inside. Like. Up their butts. |
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Apr 25, 2026 00:04 Yeah, I figured it was a long shot. And I knew I felt something up there. |
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Apr 25, 2026 01:13 Bugibaboo gagadooped |
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Apr 25, 2026 05:13 Perspectives man. What is Alt to you? |
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Apr 25, 2026 07:40 The f**k are you talking about men can't pull off the goth look? I call bulls**t! |
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Apr 25, 2026 12:17 You can trust vamp, its why he dresses as a goth woman |
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Apr 25, 2026 16:25 vamp you look like a sped who stuck his head into a gallon of white paint. disney adult of goth over here |
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Apr 25, 2026 20:26 Soooooo, op bothered to look at my page, but not comment... oookkkaaayyyy? |
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Apr 25, 2026 20:46
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Apr 25, 2026 22:33 I saw what vamp looks like now, not.like his ages old photos. No, he cant look good like that now or before. |
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Apr 25, 2026 22:38 https://youtu.be/89C3ITCg-oU?si=nTbwANqs4Wod8nd- |
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Apr 26, 2026 00:05 Bugaffdf dooopooojju |
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Apr 26, 2026 01:09
Lmao there's also so many non alt people on this site too, its so fried |
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Apr 26, 2026 01:11 I'm more of a dating site than altscene is. |
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Apr 26, 2026 01:28
Wait, so this ISN’T the app where normies come to collect us like Pokémon? I’ve been misled. Also leather pants guy? Bold of him. Very bold. The pants are doing a lot of heavy lifting |
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Apr 26, 2026 01:49 Who's the leather pants guy? |
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Apr 26, 2026 03:04
gbababboo |
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Apr 26, 2026 09:08 @Dr.Sus Someone who clearly had a very specific vision for his life. Leather included. |
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Apr 26, 2026 10:00 Ross from friends right? Right? |
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Apr 26, 2026 10:15 @StGeorgesJay The spirit of Ross lives on. The pants did not cooperate. |
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Apr 26, 2026 10:32 Now hes a dinosaur. |
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Apr 26, 2026 11:14 Yes criptic indeed. |
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Apr 26, 2026 11:16 Anyone read E.A. Poe story about the mysterious chimney? Cryptic* |
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Apr 26, 2026 12:36
Technically there are no alt people when you get enough together... then you all become the norm. |
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Apr 26, 2026 12:46 Normal is the alternative. Thinking for yourself was always problematic. |
