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Do you think looks really matter?

Do you think looks really matter?

unknownjoy Created Apr 18, 2026 04:51
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People love pretending looks don’t matter in dating, but come on that’s just not reality. Attraction is the entry ticket. You can have the best personality in the world, but if there’s zero physical pull, they're not staying long.

In your opinion does it matter tho or not?

 

This topic has 77 comments

St Georges Jay

Apr 18, 2026 04:53

Yes.

Trust me i'm gorgeous.

Dr. Sus

Apr 18, 2026 05:40

They matter. It's biologically ingrained in us as a species, in order to keep the species alive. They matter more or less depending on the person making that decision, but they do matter to some extent I'd say to just about everyone. I won't personally f**k with a gorgeous woman with a dogs**t personality, but I'll date someone who's not a goddess and has a great personality, but I think that's becoming rare in humans.

sportsbitch

Apr 18, 2026 16:10

i see hot piece of ass i like, i dont see hot piece of ass i dont like, ez

emperorroberto

Apr 18, 2026 17:35

Someone who you aren't right away attracted to you can find their inner beauty over time but they can't be well you know "ugly".So you're right they have to be attractive for something.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Apr 18, 2026 18:12

Actually I think you'll find if you interact with anyone long enough that is either on a similar wave length or has welcome qualities becomes attractive through connection.

This is why you will have probably seen people together that appear to be at opposite ends of the league table, and you may have thought how did that happen?

You may also find that a number of attractive people have nothing else going for them, and as soon as their initial wow factor wears off and you see what's left, you realise you don't actually like them.

Do not be persuaded by other people's judgement.

🧜🏻‍♀️_Siren_🧜🏻‍♀️

Apr 18, 2026 18:14

Very good observation and comment Mr mesmerizing

Gold star ⭐

Baba Yaga

Apr 18, 2026 19:27

I was always into knowledge and big egos. As a dating woman. Now im looking down at the chaos created by women and women wannabe egos. Its all chaos. Enjoy while it lasts.
Men could always think for the nations.
Women could follow as it is in our genes. Forbid we could have a preference. You gwt the genes you are given. Men need to eat and sleep and eat and earn trust of the womb each time. Oh how mistreated Men are by Women and never a good excuse.

NEØN

Apr 19, 2026 17:48

Looks matter to an extent but personality is really what seals the deal. Looks just open the door. A hot person with an ugly personality is not going to hold onto partners. Conversely someone who is not hot may still become hot to another through their charisma, humor, and intelligence.

St Georges Jay

Apr 19, 2026 17:51

Depends how they roll tho neon, anything below a 5 and its not likely. Also if they're not a CHA build? Pffft, no chance.

NEØN

Apr 20, 2026 01:52

People below 5 can date others below 5 🤷‍♀️

St Georges Jay

Apr 20, 2026 04:23

I dont think you know how dice work...

Gothicvamp777

Apr 21, 2026 08:11

What kind of bulls**t question is that?

Last I checked the heart and soul of a person is where its at. The body is only just a temporary shell.

St Georges Jay

Apr 21, 2026 09:48

How unfortunate for you Vamp

Mercurius Mesmerize

Apr 21, 2026 11:42

When do we get our permanent shell?

NEØN

Apr 21, 2026 13:24

I can't believe I agree with Vamp this time

St Georges Jay

Apr 21, 2026 13:31

Merc, when you get a hi-score of 1 billion 12

Neon, take 5. Have a lie down. It will be ok.

Gil Blanton

Apr 21, 2026 15:28

Looks matter. Vamp doesn’t think looks matter because he has no looks. Tale as old as time.

Gothicvamp777

Apr 21, 2026 16:38

You guys are f**ked

St Georges Jay

Apr 21, 2026 16:46

Its easier to get f**ked if you have good looks. Technically you're complimenting us.

Or hitting on us.

Or threatening us.

In which case no thank you sir i go for looks.

NEØN

Apr 22, 2026 00:33

I am f**ked...on the regular.

Gil Blanton

Apr 22, 2026 00:47

Vamp’s idiotic notions of the nature of existence are also amusing. The body as a temporary vessel for an illusory immortal soul, truly Bronze Age insights.

St Georges Jay

Apr 22, 2026 01:22

Soul is real, is capital of Korean. Ty for your time.

Baba Yaga

Apr 22, 2026 10:08

Max aloha and welcome. another imposter wannabe. This is getting boringly interesting hah.

Gil Blanton

Apr 22, 2026 19:13

How can a real person be an imposter if the character they’re posing as is fictional?

St Georges Jay

Apr 22, 2026 19:17

Amogus.

Baba Yaga

Apr 22, 2026 19:27

I ment you are not real but you are somewhere there being real. You pose as Max. Did you do it then? Your avatar is rooted in counter culture...
What am I supposed to think of you?

St Georges Jay

Apr 22, 2026 20:23

No, the answer is amogus.

Gil Blanton

Apr 22, 2026 22:30

I am comfortably anonymous, and I expect you will come to think of me as an arrogant asshole.

Emuu

Apr 23, 2026 00:00

Honestly based

St Georges Jay

Apr 23, 2026 00:34

I dont trust people who dont show their face on the internet.

IAMEYK

Apr 23, 2026 01:32

I am the most trustworthy

Dr. Sus

Apr 23, 2026 05:25

Lon reminds me of Vic... anyone who's been here a while will know who I'm talking about.

Also, Neon said the other thing I've said here many times. How a person can become more or less attractive based off their personality... like it somehow changes the way they look. It's an interesting phenomena. I really like good looks, but I can't be with a super hottie who's not that great a person, or who I don't connect with on that deep a level.

IAMEYK

Apr 23, 2026 05:49

Isn't that a demisexual?

Dr. Sus

Apr 23, 2026 06:18

Yes, and once I heard that term amd learned what it meant I'd say I identify as such, pretty closely. I mean, I can still sleep with a hottie because they're hot, but I don't like to just because they're hot. I learned that about myself pretty early on.

Gothicvamp777

Apr 23, 2026 07:38

I miss Vic

Baba Yaga

Apr 23, 2026 07:41

You guys are so full of it, it hurts my soul. From my experience men will grab any occasion to stick their pokypoke anywhere. I got off hookups site recently. Parties with 10 men and one woman, parties with grannies and trannies. As long as white stuff flows, doesn't matter if the hole even got a face.

Baba Yaga

Apr 23, 2026 07:48

Anyone remember Bonnie Blue? She was going for the record but what about the Men? Why would you even...? Did they got paid?

Gothicvamp777

Apr 25, 2026 07:44

White stuff? Are you talking about cocaine?

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 07:48

Any white stuff you can imagine. Spunk, drugs, milk, whatever tickles the fancy.

amongravens

Apr 25, 2026 18:31

My looks have honestly brought more trouble than anything: jealousy in real life, and assumptions online. Most guys come in with something shallow and expect me to match that, which couldn’t be further from who I am. In reality, I’m very intelligent and have probably pursued more education than most people I meet. That never really seemed to matter though.
At this point, I’d probably get banned again just for existing…
And yes—still your all-time favorite trickster on this site 😆

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 19:22

Yo! Did Jay dumped you already? Jesus girl you got on my nerves and I dont really remember why. You ok? Welcome back!

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 19:24

How are you a trickster? Are you luring the innocent trickster to sacrifice them to the old Gods?

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 19:24

Pricks*

amongravens

Apr 25, 2026 19:30

Dear Baba, no hard feelings. I’ve calmed down a bit 😆
Don’t want to be on probation already haha

amongravens

Apr 25, 2026 19:56

And thanks Baba. Would not be here as much, but on occasion yes.

Dr. Sus

Apr 25, 2026 20:21

Milk 😅

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 20:27

Man the point of the first comment was: there's a misogynistic adult parties praying on vanity/naivety of women. Imagine guys posing as trans promising ultimate pleasure dungeons to anyone ending in brutal rapes posed as nights of nsa fun. It's scary. Also targeted hookups to humiliate or expose cheating but creating the occasion or whatever you f**king can imagine.
My head exploded for a bit.
Im back to base line. Still crazy tho.

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 20:42

It might be hidden incel underground in plain sight. My crazy is going so far as hidden child p**n rings but im not gonna dig that deep. I value my life hah

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 20:44

Point is: s*x sells, and buying is the one with the thickest wallet so stay safe peeps.

amongravens

Apr 25, 2026 21:07

BabaYaga: Jay’s cute and seems like a good guy, but I think I’ve already found my focus a bit elsewhere. If you like him, go for it.

St Georges Jay

Apr 25, 2026 21:12

Why am i being *****d out? I have autonomy, I'm not a woman smh.

Dr. Sus

Apr 25, 2026 21:37

What does the National Security Agency have to do with this?

Dr. Sus

Apr 25, 2026 21:38

I didn't know you felt that way about me Amongravens 😊.

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 22:19

Raven I hope the rape is worth it. I wouldn't go for him and he was too scared of my crazy. Say hello from me and have fun.
Not you Jay. You just having a laugh at peoples effedupness and I can't blame you.
I still hate you all and the world as it is.

IAMEYK

Apr 25, 2026 22:21

Once again, I have no clue what's happening here

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 22:55

Raven is back, with a plus one who is the most vile sadistic the world ever carried. Only joking, never met the man but my crazy is vibrating strong.
Also yes.

Baba Yaga

Apr 25, 2026 22:55

I deleted a word after sadistic 🤭

Mercurius Mesmerize

Apr 26, 2026 00:01

Have you tried a lower setting?

FwiFfOooO o

Apr 26, 2026 00:07

Gabagoo yo gaba gabaaaa

NEØN

Apr 26, 2026 00:10

Why are all the girls crashing out over Jay? Someone give me the Cliff's notes

St Georges Jay

Apr 26, 2026 00:13

If you get them can i also have them?

Dr. Sus

Apr 26, 2026 01:50

Don't forget to fill me in guys!

🧜🏻‍♀️_Siren_🧜🏻‍♀️

Apr 26, 2026 01:50

Hahaha been there, this be interesting

NEØN

Apr 26, 2026 06:35

Altscene has officially becomes Jay's harem.

Dr. Sus

Apr 26, 2026 06:37

Sounds like a good name for a bar, "Jay's Harem."

Baba Yaga

Apr 26, 2026 07:21

Im not even into Jay. He gave me his number we talked for a day so I started caring for poor soul. He sobered up and "not in the mood for people" since then. Dont make me care about you effer. Hate is strong today.

amongravens

Apr 26, 2026 09:57

Harem? Sounds exhausting. I’m going back to my coffin

St Georges Jay

Apr 26, 2026 10:00

Whenever i'm not into somebody i talk about them publicly all the time fr fr

Baba Yaga

Apr 26, 2026 11:19

Yes, you stalker. Made me care for a week. My caring abilities are depleted as it is and ypu just effing hooked up like a leech.

Mercurius Mesmerize

Apr 26, 2026 11:27

The moral of the story is, do not not care, but do not be careless in caring, but care less.

Baba Yaga

Apr 26, 2026 11:30

Yes. I had a good few weeks then in believing in humanity. Yet again house of cards (mine build on cracked foundation) got higher and higher. Add all the oracle and tarot hah. Nothing one soul could predict being so use to pain.

Baba Yaga

Apr 26, 2026 11:31

So used to pain and propaganda. I did belive in everything I hear and see. No questions because answers are one sided.

St Georges Jay

Apr 26, 2026 11:33

Libel is a crime.

Baba Yaga

Apr 26, 2026 12:03

Barrista are you?

St Georges Jay

Apr 26, 2026 12:19

Baba Yaga

Apr 26, 2026 12:46

To much trolling for a troll? The Internet one, herd mentality in this one.

St Georges Jay

Apr 26, 2026 12:50

 

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