So, In the week I manage care homes for people with autism, on some evenings I teach self protection and on the weekend I often work as security at several Birmingham rock/alternative venues. I like the varied lifestyle this affords me and enjoy meeting new people and helping others when I can.
Outside of work I sing in a well established metal band and also play drums in a comedy pop/rock/punk/folk band. I play several instruments but mostly guitar. I like to write and record music at home. I have varied tastes in music and don't limit myself to genre. I'll listen to melodic death metal one minute, then onto some Dubstep and maybe a bit of The Smiths. Good music is good music regardless of style I think.
I'm done with people abusing my work ethic and good nature so please only message me if you're happy to play an equal part in a relationship (unless of course it's not a relationship you're looking for and then I'm sure I can make allowances for the right person. Though please be aware that just because you offer it on a plate it doesn't mean that it's on. I'm pretty selective about who I get with.)
It does help if you can spell and hold a decent conversation too.
I am pretty friendly though and get on with most people. So even if I can't see us dating I'll more than likely reply to you. Making new friends never hurt anyone. I'm pretty open too so feel free to ask me literally anything. I have nothing to hide and am pretty comfortable in myself.