I've had a couple of relationships with this site. I would say it's better than any of the traditional dating apps because there's no swiping and you can just straight up message someone you might be interested in. It really skips all the bs
So in terms of what I'm looking for which I've never really done here, I just went with the flow, I'm looking for something serious. I feel like a lot of guys wanna seem cool so they don't say what they really want...or don't want for that matter but I think transparency especially this day and age is crucial
About me: I'm a huge jokester. If you ghost me because I'm being a bit silly and trying to have a little fun with the conversation, we probably weren't meant to be in the first place. I like a girl who's slightly sarcastic, can find humor in most things and isn't afraid to look or be silly. I mean of course there are times to be serious but during a one on one conversation I like to joke and tease. It's my way of showing that I like you
I know this is an alt site and most people like bands but I'm not really a huge band listener. Honestly a lot of music has gone down the drain but The Marías is a pretty good artist, she has some really deep music, the kind you can just get lost in late at night. Joji is pretty solid for me. He's on my work out playlist for sure. SAINt JHN is another artist that the algorithm had me randomly stumble onto and I haven't looked back since. I'm definitely an introvert and a homebody. If it was someone I enjoy being around, I definitely like to go out as well but honestly when it comes to just me, I like being home nowadays. The phase of me going out constantly is probably over for me lol
I'm not really big on writing bios and the few other times I was on this site I didn't because why waste my time writing a long bio when you're just gonna reveal about yourself to whoever you're going to talk to but I felt like actually making effort on this
We all have our flaws, insecurities but life is about finding someone who doesn't make those feelings go away but someone who accepts you for who you are and allows you to be yourself