Welcome to my profile. Please feel free to call me Midi. This is where I’m meant to show off my good side and charm people. Sadly, I’m pretty bad at that. I tend to be pretty open and I don’t see the point in trying to sell myself so that others will like me. As far as I’m concerned you’re either going to read this and be interested or you’re not. Why waste time trying to pretend to be what I think you want so you’ll message me? Doing that would be a disservice to everyone. I have a mind of my own and I have a tendency to speak it freely and often.
Some things about me: I have a Bachelor’s of Science in Psychology and once gave a classmate nightmares due to my presentation on Necrophilia. I see that as a personal achievement. I tend to curse with a vengeance that could shock a sailor. I am openly bisexual and an atheist. I am also a feminist with strong political views. I guess you could say I dress differently from most people. I’d say that 99% of my clothes are black. You can call me alternative, goth, what-have-you, I don’t really care. At the end of the day, I’m just me and my style happens to be dark. That said, I have a lot of tattoos and piercings and I plan to get more in the future. I listen to rock and metal music almost religiously.
I don’t like crowds and gatherings of large idiots…I mean people. The rare exception to this is going to concerts. I don’t drink or do drugs. I also don’t party, I just don’t see the point. I do know how to have fun though and can be a huge fangirl about things I enjoy. I love gaming, reading, writing, watching movies-tv-anime. I’m a huge homebody. On the flip side, I also love nature trails, tubing down rivers, camping, bowling, etc…
To me, coming home to a water gun fight with a ‘may the odds be ever in your favor’ vibe going on can be just as romantic as dinner at a restaurant. I’m the type of person who takes the greatest of joys in the smallest of things. That said I tend to be extremely sarcastic. If smart-ass and bad puns-jokes were degrees, I’d have a doctorate in them. What else? Oh, I love learning. Mostly history, culture, and religion. I find the subjects vastly interesting and eye-opening. Museums should really be called Disneyworld for Geeks.
Moving on, I am the mother of two amazing teenagers. They are the center of my world. We game together, joke together, talk all the time, etc…I would be lost without them. Apart from my kids, I also take care of my grandfather, who suffers from Alzheimer’s disease, which is my current job. For the sake of transparency, I will put this here: I have a disease called endometriosis. Suffice it to say – I can no longer have children. I also had an accident that resulted in the removal of my teeth. It's something I’m very sensitive and embarrassed about. If you aren’t okay with this, I understand. Again, I’m all about transparency. I’m not someone who will deceive you or lie to you. I don’t believe in that.
I am here for a long term relationship. I don’t do FWB nor am I looking to get laid. I don’t have time for stupid stuff like that. I’m looking for a stable commitment. Period. I don’t appreciate sexual messages and I won’t reply back if you send one. I also won’t reply back if you immediately ask for my number or demand I download an app. You don’t get to make demands or treat me like a s*x object and expect a reply as if you deserve one. News flash – you don’t.
Still reading? Great send me a message and let's make a conversation that's unique to us. Talk to me about science, astronomy, taboo subjects, history, poems, etc...There's a wealth of conversations to be had, so why stick to the same story over again? If we only get one chance at life, then I say we should fill it with conversations that move us, not just move along.
P. S. : I live in Jacksonville, Florida, U.S.A.