I'm looking for an honesty, loyalty, compassion, respect, value, sense of humor, balanced male, energy, love, partnership, chemistry-in all ways, not just sexual, compatibility, similar goals. By the way, love is something you grow, and people need to realize the difference between being "in" love and loving someone for the long haul. It takes some work and the ability to compromise without compromising yourself. I also want a guy who doesn't continually compare me to his mother, ex, sister or any other female. I want to be loved and valued for who I am.