I discovered myself through a nightclub called Slimelight in the 1990s. For a while around that time I also went to TG. I am a mostly subby, mostly straight man who is into bands like Coil, Skinny Puppy, Alice In Chains, Early Manics et al. I have had my writing published and have recorded and gigged a fair bit too. I like trying new things and experiencing loss of self through various methods. I am 6'1", apparently very good looking and not overweight. I have three tattoos. I am on here because the type of people I am interested in don't go to 'normal' places and I can't be arsed with clubbing any more.