This profile just had a re write and update. I'm here for fiends mainly, hopefully including rl, coffee and social meets. I am also going to change my appearance (hair) somewhat to take account of life stuff; I can't stop wearing black though lol.. Preview the new narcissistic look in one of the photo folders, hope y'all like it lol.
Cheers
J
06 04 2024
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Updated, too long don't read! Unless you want to lol! 🌹
☠ Single, available and above all, honest and genuine (bat).. ...so apparently its a good idea to put this on a profile; now read on or just write in lol ☠
☠☠☠ Hello World. Just a wild guess but methinks that dating and social life is maybe recovering after the past 4 years? In any event my inbox is always open to old friends here or anyone up for some chat. We survived so far so that is something to drink to. ☠☠☠
☠☠ As far as the crappy pandemic goes, I will still mitigate, I will wear an N95, FFp2 or FFp3 mask indoors. You know it makes sense!
☠ In case it matters, I am an ENFJ-A according to the Myers Briggs rating scale. If you have a rating check our compatibility with the chart in my photos section lol! Ideal matches are INFP, ENFP, INFJ, INTJ, INTP, ENTP. Good chance matches are, ENFJ, ENTJ, ISFP.
☠ So I mainly chat to the opposite gender friends and interesting people that come here! I have met some and we keep up but we have not dated, just saying. Networking and friends/fiends, hanging out buddies, is just as good though!
☠ Some folk still looking for their childhood sweetheart and fixated on age, should know this, dating is a mixed age activity!!! Especially once you get past failing to marry that first, lovely, sweetheart, yes the one you missed out on! So here we all are, we end up on places like this, mingling and socialising with all the other singletons of divers ages and MH problems lol! So sorry I missed out on my first love that is for sure, sigh! Hope you are ok out thar luvely!
☠ So I had my gothy profile on the Vampirefreaks site as nightnews_freak, with some music choices and proper photos! Shame that site closed in Feb 2020 sigh! I am also on Spotify if you like to swap music choices!?
☠ I've done my bit for music, goth, promotion, publicity and the arts between 1998 and about 2010. I was a website developer, promoter, edfringe reviewer and publicist for ages. I got into circus and performance arts 2010- 2020. I had other lives well before all of that. My 'olde' goth site (*nightnews* dot net) is archived online, mostly because I don't want to give up the domain.
☠ About me: I'm a widower, trad gothy, perfectly civilised, into empathy, care, communication ..really! Probably older than you though but if it helps, you can think of me as undead! Maybe I am, it feels like it some days! I generally train, work out and try to keep healthy! If I vanish for a long period I may have a depression, shame about that.
☠ So if you are here for a new, opposite gender, alt, gothy, metal and rock loving pal, I'm always up for some on-line (or coffee, or pub) goth and alt chit chat, in real life, at an event, here or another app. I sometimes go to the Slime, The Aces and Eights, Dev, LAM and random promotions and arty stuff. I liked the Goth Bring and buy sale and Satanic Flea Market for their vibe. I'm developing a taste for dark country, because there is always more to explore lol!
☠ Willing to meet in a public space for coffee etc! Safety First! ☠
☠ Currently in London, ..I lived in Scotland for decades and miss it greatly! ☠
☠ Into syfy, fantasy, music, circus, art, beauty, truth and alternative performance. Also its yes to Goth, Metal, Rock, and Dark genres, will enjoy some indie and retro 80's as well. Pansexual, generally CIS and I am fascinated by variety.
☠ For Supernaturals, fantasy and syfy, check out my imdb list I made in a spare several months during lockdowns lol. Webmaster-31485 at IMDB https : // www. imdb. com / user / ur127315189 / copy paste remove gaps
☠ Trad goth, rebel to the bone, non smoker, not into drgz personally, drinks socially (vin rouge, gin, porter, ale. cider.) Tries to be tolerant, flexitarian and enjoys good veggie/vegan stuff lol! Cares about the environment and concerned about the lousy way modern society seems to be heading!
☠ Graduate, two Postgrad Diploma's, other qualifications and courses. Self employed for decades, web dev, promotions, PR, marketing, have worked as a soldier film extra (Vanity Fair lol), worked for the Medical Research Council (ad hoc survey jobs), professional guerrilla/asymmetric marketeer usually in the arts. Carer for a very very old mom just now. Sadly old man passed recently.
☠ If you would like to chat elsewhere I use ☠ Signal, Telegram ☠ *skype* nightnews ☠ *zoom id* 965 658 0475 ☠ *twitter* Nightnewsdotnet ☠ Discord ask me ☠ insta bat.caver ☠ *spotify* ask me ☠ f a r c e book ask me ☠
☠ Wink policy, they are handy to show interest, to find you again, for when I can't think of what to say or am hurried so don't take them the wrong way lol!
☠ If you have a screw loose that's fine, I am used to it by now, but, love, peace and lots of friendly bats to you all heh.
☠ updated 12/03/2024
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☠Favorite quote☠
☠ "These violent delights have violent ends and in their triumph die, like fire and powder, which, as they kiss, consume!" Romeo & Juliet and Westworld ☠
☠Some adapted reflections on the world..☠
☠ As the world spins, the screw turns, we say hi to 'dystopia' already!..
☠ "I've seen things you people wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhäuser Gate. Moon landings. Concorde. The Vietnam war. 9/11. I stood at a live cruise missile deployment on Salisbury plain once. I've seen Gulf War 1&2. Brexit. Stolen Elections. Austerity. A lunatic orange fake tan US President. Covid19. Global Pandemic. Systemic Racism. Systemic police brutality. America burning. US bad cops attacking the press! A #toridiot #casteocracy English PM pressing for #herdimmunity and killing 250,000 plus commoners. A betrayed NHS. #blacklivesmatter #Ukraine #Gaza Not all of those moments will be lost in time like 'tears in rain.' We have to bear witness! Time to die!? Not yet anyways..." ☠
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