My hobbies include video games, writing poetry, and going out to clubs... if only because my cousin asks me to go. I spend a lot of my time writing and reading about various things but one thing that consistently surrounds me is music. Mostly rock and metal, but it wouldn't surprise the people that know me if they found me listening to a country song, or a love song. When possible, I blast music in the car as loud as it'll go and drive around the city. I'm also originally from Ukraine, and speak Russian fluently.
Let's talk about what I want right now. I want somebody to date. I want to cuddle up and talk. I don't want to rush anything, and a lot of people say that, but this is what it means to me. Rushing to me= doing something I'm not sure I want to do just because the other person wants to. The way I see it is simple. If I like somebody, I like them regardless of their feelings towards me. I don't base my answers off of yours, as I am my own person. I just want to see how we interact before putting labels on it. I know you'll read this another time or two in my profile, but I'll say it again. I date exclusively, I don't screw around or waste other people's time, please don't waste mine.
Let's talk about my idea of a relationship. I have a lot to say on this, but I'm going to narrow it down to the bare minimum so nobody gets bored reading this. I believe in love. The kind of love that enables two people to stay together through anything thrown their way, by life, or each other. I believe in holding the door open for my partner, telling them they're beautiful instead of hot, and having affectionate cuddle time that doesn't lead to s*x. As a matter of fact, I'm saving myself until marriage to even have s*x. If that bothers you, turn back now. (Yes, I do other things, quit asking.) Above all else, I want somebody that will love me in a similar way that I love them, and show it. With that said, I'm not looking to jump into anything, but I also DO NOT date more than one person at a time, and I'd expect the same of somebody I'm dating. I also believe that there are many grey areas in life. Dating and relationships shouldn't be one of them. Two people like each other, want to be with each other, they are. It's as simple as that, it honestly is.
My humor is usually offbeat and dark. Think a satire movie where the writers tried too hard, resulting in the best worst funny jokes of all time. Overall, I'd say I'm a realist.. There is no dark cloud in every situation, and there isn't always sunshine and bunnies, either. I have realistic expectations of myself, and anybody I'm with or befriend. I do my best to keep it fair for all parties involved, and I do a good job of that from what I've been told. Cuddling up and just goofing around for the fun of it is probably one of the most fun things to me. However, serious talks, identifying problems, and handling life outside of a relationship is very important. I expect to see my partner on a regular basis, but not smother each other.
I'm brutally honest and I don't apologize for it. I say things that I mean and I do what I say I'm going to do. I expect the same from anybody that wants to interact with me. Honesty is my number one policy. I have X-ray vision, I see through crap.
This could go on forever, so here's what I'm going to end on. If you like cuddling, deep, meaningful talks, loads of goofing around and being "cutsey", talk to me.
