Hi, I'm Cody.
It crosses my mind that I should say something epic because it could be the first thing I ever say to the love of my life. Hmm... nothing comes to mind, but don't hesitate to message me if you have any ideas of something epic you wouldn't mind having said instead of the usual "uh, heya, um, well, hi, I mean, well..."
For the abbreviated version: At this point I am interested in friendship mainly, as I am not fully recovered from a recent heartbreak. Of course, to me friendship should be the start of real relationships anyway. So yeah, I'm either interested in a possible forever or a friend, both are great, but I plan to be friends with anyone who's willing to be, and then someday I'll simply marry my best friend.
For those of you who don't like reading, message me and maybe we can schedule a skype call so you don't have to.
For those of you who are readers, or just really bored or interested, read on.
I, like most people on this site, hate talking about myself like this, and have no clue what you are interested to know. On the other hand, if I don't say something, why would anyone message me? So I decided to go ahead and make a FAQs sort of thing.
I guess some FAQs would be:
What am I looking for in a partner? Well... I think it would help if we shared the same beliefs and core values, also honesty is pretty important, honestly. Other than that, I'm pretty flexible. I'd suggest no drugs or similarly destructive things, but truly, if I had to choose between an honest bank robber with my same moral compass(not quite sure that's possible, but bear with me) or miss perfect liar... I think you know who I'd choose.
Next question, where do I work? Full time college student right now with hopes of becoming an IT guy.
Hobbies? Video games, parkour, visiting friends, reading, and countless other things, but I love trying new things with people who enjoy them so if you have anything you would like to do with me, please introduce me to it.
Vices? I don't drink, smoke or do drugs. Why not? Addiction has taken enough of my time and freedom in the past, and I'm not going to continue down that path any further.
Why are you on an alternative dating site? Because the girls here are cute? For real though, I am really just hoping to connect with like-minded individuals, and even though I wouldn't say I'm traditional goth(the devil is a jerk) or emo (there is a bright side to things too) or scene (do those hotties even come in guy?) or punk(I made mowhawks look bad and skate like an old lady) or alternative (no tats or piercings till I get married, what if she hated it/them?) or metal head(there are other types of music... yeah I should run)... I love poetry, and art (all kinds) and somewhat darker things have some appeal to me, and rebels, artists, poets, and in general the exact kind of vagabond that populates this site, are my kind of people.
Oh and I'm also a nerd, and I am awkward at times,(not unlike that sentence) and I'm also a Christian(the weird kind that actually believes the Bible and tries to make a difference in the world by loving everyone and caring for people and stuff but who doesn't advertise like a crossfit customer)
I am pretty sure those last statements lost the entirety of this site, if not the known world, so if you are still reading I'm impressed, flattered, and I would love to meet you.
Thank you for your time,
Cody
