Well hello, ! My name is Vivian, I am very career oriented as well as family and home oriented, I just try to keep busy as much as I can. . I've been described by my friends as funny, kind, straight forward, intelligent and strong as well as very open and carefree. .oh and some will say I'm tireless and crazy. . They are all correct! I have many positive attributes, which I have gained over the years just through experience and maturity. .I'm a very independent and resilient woman but also very soft.... I admit I do have an outer shell, that may take some effort to break, but I assure you the key is through patience, kindness, honesty, fun and respect. . All of which are not abundant qualities in people , this day and age. I am hopeful and believe those qualities still exist in someone..
I really wanted to stress that I'm not perfect, sometimes it seems that everyone is looking for perfection. .the perfect mind, the perfect body, the perfect credit score lol, I am not looking for all of that, I'm only looking for someone who has the ability to make me happy most of the time and when they just can't , they will still try to be considerate of my feelings, sometimes we don't do that and that is the breakdown in the relationship. . . We just need to be considerate... there is never a need to be selfish and ugly ..
My motto is..you never get a second Chance to make a first impression, I don't look backwards and I don't work up a sweat trying to make something work, I believe that true love and respect are effortless, of course times get hard and disagreements occur, but during the dating phase, or the meeting phase, if it doesn't go smoothly and consistently then basically it's a wrap
There's only one person meant for us..
A man who doesn't remain consistent is not a man I want , looks, nor money will change that, I'm looking for love..
To finish up this section of the summary of who I am, the bottom line is that I have learned that you can only understand that if someone is meant to be in your life they will be there, if there is anything I have taken from this life, it's knowing that you just have to let people be who they are and not try to make them who you want them to be, I want that person I can have fun with, I don't like drama, nobody likes a Buzzkill! I'm never intimidated by other females (not because I don't think that 99 out of a hundred are more beautiful than me, but because I'm confident ) I don't need to compete and I won't. . If someone finds themselves attracted to someone else, a sad face won't change that. .
I am looking for my partner, he will know that he is my partner and that I am his and it will be because we chose to grow old together nobody else will phase him.
