I have learned... though that chemistry is not everything and not the only component for building a strong relationship. A picture is worth a thousand word yet can still tell you nothing. Lastly beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and I would say I have more on the inside than the outside. LOL No one is perfect including myself but I suppose if you don't put it out there and risk, you'll never know. However I am realistic and I am by far not perfect. The type of person I am interested in is a man who can laugh, be playful and light hearted, one who is motivated and ambitious, intelligent, and self confident. I am not interested in online sending of n*de pic.......I am a Versatile or I can say switch...