I just want to meet people that share my tastes and have a somewhat twisted sense of humor, someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously but can keep up an interesting conversation. Intelligence and humor are genuinely what's most important to me. Good looks are great obviously, but it's not what defines a person. I imagine this site mostly attracts the very young, which is not exactly in my age bracket. I've always been a fan of punk music, was completely goth when I was young enough to get away with mohawks and purple hair, but responsibilities (like jobs) have required me to tone it down considerably.But I still have the same taste in music ("classic" punk, industrial, metal, goth, etc) and have always been attracted to guys with tattoos, piercings and similar tastes in music, books& movies and that don't follow the masses blindly. I know there are guys close to my age who haven't become buttoned-up bankers and have stopped loving the alternative scene just because they aren't 21 anymore! The question is, where are they??