Well i guess i should start by saying that i am not goth (anymore). when i was younger i did try it for a while to an extent though so I can relate, i wouldn't be clueless on a date or insensitive to the culture. I do have to say that I am also in an open relationship. we are not looking for a quick hook up, we are looking for a serious relationship, if you are bi that would be a plus but its not a problem if your not. We are pretty laid back and we would accept you for what you are as a person and wouldn't really have a problem with it. I'm gonna put up a pic of both of us instead of just me.