First things first, I am in a loving and committed relationship. We met on here nearly a year ago. Recently we have both accepted that although we will always be emotionally exclusive we do not see the harm in a physically open relationship. This may seem to some people like we are just using this as an excuse to sleep around, but that is NOT the case! Just because I message you or you message me, please do not assume it is for solely sexual purposes, even people in an open relationship can have friends. If something is to come of any conversations then we will not ignore our feelings.