Well for starters I am too ***** for okcupid, to vanilla for alt.com so i am looking for a place that I might find a close match lol. I have been single for about four years now, my last break up was kind of an eye opener for me. I read Dan savage a lot and agree with most of what he says. I am not concerned with what is between my partners legs as what is between the ears and in their hearts. Most people that know me don't think I look or act my age, also I have a habit of acting about ten years younger. My s*x drive has not diminished since I was sixteen ( and this has caused issues in the past). I am an open minded free thinker that is in search of the same, with a high s*x drive, that is GGG and open to most things (with consent and open dialog).