Originally from Boston, I moved to Chicago about 12 years ago. I enjoy the outdoors, working out, hanging with my bulldog Sherman, travel, family, my true friends, and the challenges and rewards of life.. I like to think as myself as a very unique and grounded person who prides myself on treating people the way I would like to be treated. I believe you should respect people until they prove you wrong and help out when the opportunity arises. I am not like most of the cheese ball guys on these dating sites. I promise no pictures with the shirt of or pictures of me next to a camaro with my stumbs up hehe. I have no desire for snobs or trixies or people that can’t see the big picture. I believe communication is the key to a strong relationship and of course honesty and trust. I am from a family of 6 kids who I am very close to and look forward to an amazing family of my own in the future. I am looking for someone not afraid to tell me what’s on their mind and give 100 percent for that special person. I love the little things in life that make a relationship so special. Someone who is great with people and someone who has an amazing passionate heart like myself.. I am ready to settle down with that special someone. I am not on here to date a thousand people I am looking for a strong friendship to build into a great relationship. I like to think of myself as being straight forward. If If I had a great time with you I will call you the next day. If you love to dance in a cage at excalibur or love the club scene I am not for you. I am very low maintnence and looking for someone to make time for a special person that can give the mutual effort. I am not a game player nor have I ever been or have any time to be.
Ben
