Hi I'm gay but married. Still reading, good. I was forced into a conventional lifestyle because I spent a long time as a Jehovah's Witness. They thought marriage would be a cure. I am an old punk at heart. Love Billy Idol and more light weight punk. I love the look as much as the music and punk and emo guys are a real turn on for me. I come out in January this year. My wife has been supportive. We're still together but I have occasional fun. She's told me that if I ever find love with a guy she'll let me go. I'm a free spirit, versatile and am looking for similar.