(And before you read "the basics," I've been informed I come off really intimidating/angry, and that is honestly not my intent, I believe I should clear the basics so neither of us wastes our time.)
---> I'm what A LOT of people, especially the people here, consider "gothic." I don't put a stereotype on myself, but if I had to, I guess that covers it.
---> I'm "plus sized," "chubby," "fat," "more to love," etc.
I am highly comfortable with my body type, if you aren't, then I'm clearly not the girl for you.
---> Also, I am A MOTHER. I'm not looking for a parent for my kids, I'm just informing you that I do have children.
---> I listen to a little of every kind of music, so don't automatically think I want to talk to you about The Cure or something.
---> I am a HUGE Batman freak.. I love the Batman universe, specifically Harley Quinn. Not for the HARLEY JOKER stuff but for HARLEY QUINN as a character herself
---> It was recently brought to my attention there are A LOT of close minded people. IF YOU FIND HOMOsexualITY WRONG/WEIRD/SCARY/CREEPY, DO NOT CONTACT ME. I'm PANsexual and am an avid supporter of gay rights and don't put up with people not thinking any opinion other than their own is right.
I'll just tell you flat-out, I do reply "selectively."
I'm probably a lot more shallow than I have a right to be, but here is why:
I want someone I can be attracted to emotionally AND physically.
I'll be very blunt about this:
Personality only keeps us going for so long, and I want someone that will light the fire that died a long time ago.
GRANTED, looks only go so far too, that's why I want a hole in one. (No pun intended.
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