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CHILLNRELAX

43 - Straight

California, United States

Mar 11, 2021 18:44

Pretty much summed up like this....It's better to be hated for who you are, than loved for who you aren't. Looking for someone that doesn't want to change me, but would rather get to know me for who I really am. Must be willing to "let your hair down" relax and just try to have a good time. Someone that is outgoing and doesnt have a problem being silly would be amazing.What they should know about you
Im getting back into the game..Kik ChillNrelax...new to this dating site thing. I have a lot to offer for someone willing to accept that. I dont judge, and we all have pasts. Interested in looking for someone who wants to look towards the future. face it with a middle finger and a smile. Life is too short for regrets..so create some memories! Im willing to try anything twice!
My friends would tell you that I'm A nerd...a big silly nerd. Even at work Im making stupid comments and trying to find a smile in everything. From shaggy voices to crazy raptor walks...(believe me...ive been told its a sight to see) so...yeah...oh..and im a hopeless romantic willing to sacrifice for happiness.
What I'm really passionate about is Life, positivity, moving, growing, seizing life by its short n curlies. never looking back and letting others be who they are and learning to love it anyway. Knowing when to keep a secret is always good. Not everyone should know your business...some things are special for the few special people that care enough to sneak into the bubble of me!
Not many people know that I'm
Shy...outside of work...i am shy (at first). I want to know people willing to take chances and be an inspiration to me. Ive been locked away inside my own head for way too long...now im just trying to let it all go.
What I find s*xy is
A sense of humor...you cant fake it...it doesnt change. Smiles...real ones...not those forced picture smiles. Laughter..the let loose laughter that is just before the..wheezy no sound laughter that makes you pee your pants. Ok..maybe not you..but i know a few people that have had that problem.
you should message me if...
You think you can handle this.
I strive to treat people how i want to be treated. REAL...like they matter. For some that can be too much, and for that i say...HOLY FRIGGIN COW...WAKE UP AND REALIZE YOU ARE AWESOME! oh...and i dont like having to always make the first move...so please...let go of the status quo...if you are interested...let me know. You may not know what youre missing. I am not conceited, but i know im no loser either.
P.S. In person i tend to start out a little shy...its a social thing. But believe me...when im past the initial awkwardness...you better hold on

First Date
Anything goes, but laughter is a must. New experiences are always a plus and candid moments show ones true heart and spirit. I'm easy going so anything is cool, but something creative...that would be impressive. Dont be afraid to make a suggestion...step outside of the stereotypical box...make a suggestion already...sheesh! =)

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