"Where there is no loyalty, there is no honor. Where there is no honor, there cannot be trust." - Aedryan
Well, there is a lot to tell about me, really. Though I was settled down with a family for over 17 years in my marriage, I have led a pretty interesting life. I am a professional entertainer (magician/illusionist), which has brought me a lot of success and happiness. I've been performing professionally for about the past 15 years. I am also a musician/songwriter, as well as founder of the Strange Happenings Ghost And Hauntings Research Society. Pretty cooky, eh? >8>| I am actually a pretty normal, laid back person in my private life, though. Basically, i'm just a big kid with a lot of really cool and unusual toys and lots of artistic visions and passions, which I tend to put to good use.
I would be tickled to death to have "Lil' Ms. Forever Girl" fall out of the sky and into my life, but realistically I am just hoping to meet a really great girl to spend time with in hopes of discovering a mutual true love for one another. It is also very important to me that we would become best friends as well. I am seeking a girl that is above all, FAITHFUL, non-promiscuous, non-alcoholic, non-psycho, honest, fair, loyal, dependable, smart, down to earth, pretty and sweet (pretty much all the things I consider myself to be) and someone with good, sensible values and beliefs. Someone, who would enjoy travelling or possibly even performing with me on occasion would be awesome too, but I realize that's not for everyone. I am very fortunate to be able to go to some very nice places in my profession.
I am, for the most part, what you would call "domesticated", I suppose (LOL). I have two beautiful daughters (12 & 18), who will always be part of my life. I'm not looking for a baby mamma or anything. But, definitely someone who would accept them and be nice to them, just as I would her children. I'm a great cook and I like doing most of the usual things for recreation that most people do, such as shooting pool, going to amusement parks, going out to eat (Chinese especially), watching movies (in or out), going bowling, skating, casinos, etc. Outdoor stuff (fishing/camping, etc) is always fun to do once in awhile too. I'm up for doing anything that is fun and i'm always willing to try new things. In my free time I am content with spending time around home and playing/writing/recording/producing music in my home recording studio, bettering my business or doing work on my house. Don't get me wrong, I do still like to party like a rock star once in great awhile (with my special person at my side, of course). Just not all the time. There are just many more meaningful and productive things to be doing at this stage of life. So, i'm definitely not looking for a wild and crazed party girl or someone, who still has wild oats to sow.
Though, the above gives a pretty good generalized summary of myself, here are a few specifics:
- I am extremely loyal, faithful, open, honest and true. I am also very affectionate and I have no problem expressing my feelings or emotions in vivid detail...
- I am a one girl kind of guy. I have no need or desire for female "friends". I have only the need and desire for that one special girl in my life - My one true friend and partner...
- When I fall in love, I fall hard and I love deep. I love completely and unconditionally. "Love" is not a word I give or take lightly. Actions speak so much louder than words...
- In a relationship I will treat my special girl the same way I want to be treated (though, I don't really want to be treated like a "princess" necessarily... lol). I will not do unto my special girl as I do not want done unto myself. I am very thoughtful and considerate and I understand how things I do/don't do/say/don't say can make my partner feel. I fully realize how the littlest things can mean so much to a person, because they mean the world to me...
- I completely understand the importance of good communication, compromise, give and take and even sacrifice when it is necessary in a relationship...
If you care to know more about the inner me, just ask. I think you'll really like what you find...
And, finally... So as not to waste anyone's time, here are some things i've learned from experience, which will not work for me:
- If you own your own home there is no sense in even talking or meeting for a first date. I own my own home and I have no intentions on selling it or moving any time soon. If you own your own home I know you feel the same way. So, what are the chances of a long term, lasting relationship being possible? Not very good. I am not interested in wasting any more of my life away on way overly-extended long term dating situations that never move forward. Life is too short...
- If you have so many things going on that your whole life is already completely consumed and you do not have lots of time to devote to your partner and your relationship, I am not interested. I will make the special person in my life a high priority, but I expect the same. I would never place my partner last to anything or anyone in my life and I will not be placed last either...
- I will NOT play games! I will not chase someone and I do not have any sort of sick need to be chased. I will not settle for less than a mutual "fatal attraction". No more one-sided relationships for me, please and thank you...
- I don't mean to be rude and please don't misunderstand me, I prefer a girl, who has SOME meat on her bones, but if you have sneaky, less than honest photos of yourself on your profile and your body type should be listed as "Big & Tall" or even just "Big", i'm sorry, but I will not be attracted to you. There are men out there, who actually prefer bigger girls. So, please prevent disappointments and awkwardness for yourself and others by simply putting a legit full body photo of yourself on your profile...
- If you have been diagnosed with any form of mental illness and are on psychiatric medications (or need to be), I am not interested. It is impossible to share a deep, meaningful connection with someone, who is emotionally/mentally in the void...
- If you are the overly conservative/overly religious/uptight/judgmental type, we will not be a good match...
- Please have at least a little bit more interesting interests than just hockey, football, Nascar, camping, fishing, hunting, riding quads, 4 x 4 trucks, country music and church. Seriously, am I living in Hazzard County???
