Pretty much a square peg in a round hole here, and since childhood, an unapologetic contrarian to the bone. I find myself attracted to things that are often seemingly incongruent, illegal, immoral, or just plain dangerous. I'm a degreed professional researcher and lecturer employed in higher ed and I aspire to one day train to become a psychic medium/animal communicator/remote viewer, but I consider myself more of a knuckle-dragging meat head having far more in common with the burly blue collar working man I train next to at the gym. That being said. it's certainly been a challenge to "just be myself" without also being hopelessly polarizing and divisive. If you can relate to that, perhaps we have at least that in common. Bonus points if your type of guy is a rugged, outlaw, Heathen biker/artist type with a deep affinity for rabbits, Bölzer, creatine, near-death experiences, and banana nut muffins.