Hey, Iโm James โ 33, a Gemini with an alternative soul and a life that didnโt come with an instruction manual. I was born in Oregon, ran headfirst into independence way too young, and have been standing on my own ever since. About six years ago, I landed in New Mexico, where itโs just me and my cat, Wednesday, against the world. I donโt have family ties, but Iโve built my identity through survival, creativity, and staying unapologetically myself. Iโve lived with agoraphobia my entire life, but it never stopped my mind from roaming. I paint, draw, skateboard, tattoo, and pour emotion into anything that lets me create. Fuel me with Monster Energy, throw on a cartoon or a horror movie, hand me a gaming controller, and Iโm in my element. Iโve been emo/alternative for as long as I can remember โ not a phase, not an aesthetic, but a way of seeing the world. Iโm looking to meet someone genuinely interesting, someone I can connect with on a deeper level, share passions with, and maybe build something real in a world that often feels unreal.