I'm your basic dark, artsy type. I'm a goth, and have been for 30 years! I can be quite introverted and have a tendency to think too much. I am also a fiercely independent, capable, uber-feminine tomboy and I value my autonomy. However, I love having a man that treats me like the lady I strive to be in public, but has no qualms about reminding me who I belong to. I don't truly love many people, but I am absolutely devoted to those I do love.
Also, if you're way younger than I (like, born after 1980 or so), I'm probably not going to be into you. And, yes, that's totally on me. Truth is: If you're that much younger than me, I will probably see you as a kid, which I would not be comfortable being anything more than friends with. I've been on dates with guys younger than me, and it was weird for me. Too weird. 🤷🏻♀️
I am a big girl. However, my body is my instrument and I take care of it as such. I am strong, flexible and a bit more athletic than I look like I would be.