It is difficult to describe anyone in a few paragraphs especially oneself. One misspoken word could disqualify the most qualified.
I think the way to know someone is to observe them. Like to see someone's home, or to watch how he or she deals with conflict.
To be assertive and not avoidant, I might say that I feel, eclectic, creative, interesting, relaxing, entertaining, witty, and smart. I'm usually confident and assertive and try to hold myself to high standards, although we all need work on those things.
Expect good conversation about many topics. Unfairness makes me mad and lying annoys me. I like the way an astrology book put it, "he has highly accurate intuitions, so don't try to deceive him. The only time the wool can be pulled over his eyes is when he's putting on his sweater." (sexual astrology) a very good description of me, but I must say I wish it were true that I have never been deceived.
Ultimately looking for inspiring creative people for good conversation and warm times. Attracted to progressive, assertive, creative, adventurous women. Being rational is a huge plus, but if not, reasonable is a good trade-off. =o) I have a weakness for feminine charm and a pretty face (especially when with light colored eyes and a fit-hourglass-figure) but it isn't a deal-breaker. Expect me to be patient, understanding, and accepting of anyone I meet.
I am Diffrent, Unique, and Sweet