Straight forward, open minded, confident (though in combination with my autism some people mistake that for arrogance), geeky, creative, a bit goofy, I have a rather dark and sarcastic sense of humour. I'm quite romantic. I am very into kink as well. roleplay, B D S M and stuff like that (Just because I'm into kink doesn't mean I only want s e x). I'm a total Metalhead, I love playing guitar and drums. I fluctuate between ENTP and INTP as I'm an ambivert. I'm also aware of the flaws and oversights in the Myers-Briggs Personality Types system. I just think its fun.
I share things like my Autism, Geekiness and Kink because I know it puts some people off. I would rather that happen before any emotional investment for either party. I also hope it will appeal to someone like minded.
My "Love Language"
32% Quality Time
31% Physical Touch
22% Acts of Service
13% Words of Affirmation
2% Receiving Gifts
Generate my own income doing something I love, Own my home (possibly a Tiny House), Own a Custom Motorbike, Learn to build my own guitar, Get an awesome Tattoo by both Toxyc Xlr and Eliot Kohek, Settle Down. Possibly Marriage and Family if I find the right woman.
WHAT I BELIEVE IN:
Classical Liberalism/Libertarianism, Common Sense, Critical Analysis, Discussion, Egalitarianism, Empiricism, Freedom of Speech, Humanism, Open debate, Opinions and having minds changed with logic and evidence, Pro-choice, Progressivism, Rationalism, Republicanism, Social Democracy, Sustainability.
A cup of tea, Alternative housing, Animals, Anime, Architecture, Art, Baroque music, Batman, Britcoms, Cartoons, Cinema, Classic rock, Clubbing, Cooking, Cosplay, Cuddling, Design, Dining out, Documentaries, Drawing, Drums, Existentialism, Festivals, Gaming, Gigs, Gothic stuff in general, Guitar, HEMA, History (especially Medieval European), Horror, Intelligence, Internet, Japan, Kink, Laughing, Loyalty, Making stuff, Martial Arts, Metal, Motorbikes, Mysteries, Nature, Naughtiness, Occult stuff (I don't believe in it though, just find it interesting), Open fires, Open minds, Painting, Philosophy, Photography, Piercings, Rational Thinking, Romance, Sci-Fi, Storms, Tattoos, Tim Burton, Weaponry (particularly swords), Weird trinkets.
Actual arrogant people, Betrayers, Cancel culture, Controlling people, Drug addicts, Drunk morons, Fascists, Fifty Shades of Grey, Football, Gossips, Homophobes, Judgemental people, Jealousy, Manipulative people, Marmite, People who assume being into kink means user, People who try to interfere with others relationships, Political extremists, Preachy People (Religion, Veganism, Far Righters, Far Lefters, Ect Ect), Racists (no matter what race is being discriminatory), Screamo music, Self centred people, sexists (no matter what gender is being discriminatory), SJW's (I do believe in social progress) , Slow computers, Staged "reality" TV, Stuck up people, Stupid people, The first message, Two-faced people, Ultimatums (If someone gives me an ultimatum, I will pick the opposite to what they want, just to spite the fact that they tried manipulate me in that way), Warm beer.