I just want to get to know a fellow gothically inclined individual! It's hard out here for us edgelords! I just wanna feel accepted in a relationship, and that can be so hard, no? I'm in the phase in my life of focusing on my career and building a stable life with stable relationships, and just Having Fun is not my priority. Therefore, im genuinely looking to go on dates, talk, take it slow. No horny bulls**t, ok! Tall order, I know. Located in Hawaii atm, but looking to move in 2024, so also browsing areas I might move for work (California, NY, DMV area, new england--I'm a Sagittarius, can ya tell)
I consider myself goth in all senses of the word, and have been since forever! I may not dress the part 24/7 (not for lack of desire) and may not know everything there is to know, musically, but I do enjoy both old and new gothic music styles, as well as fashion styles. I'm also into gothic literature and artistic themes/gothic romance….vampires, frankenstein, all that jazz. My style leans to corporate and romantic goth–but i like a casual, understated dark elegance. My ideal look is vintage vampire schoolmarm, i would say. As for a night out, however, my style can be a lot edgier!
Musically, i love and frequently listen to the old 80s groups, but mostly listen to culturally adjacent genres you'll hear at goth clubs: various dark subgenres of edm (i love to dance), industrial rock, nu-metal, etc. music is honestly one of my main passions in life, so i'm here trying to avoid the people who just want the aesthetics of a goth gf. If you're not tryna get decked out with me to go to a goth club or techno rave, move along :-/
Interests: dancing (at home OR the club), playlist making, painting, poetry/writing, film and literary analysis and review, deep dive research on my interests (astrology, theology, etc.), visiting cafes
About Me: surprisingly dominant, surprisingly religious/spiritual, surprisingly schizoid–full of surprises. Duality McGee, that's me.
Dislikes: heavy/frequent substance use (i lean sober by choice), people overly invested in social media and drama about what is or isn't canceled or problematic, video games (not my vibe sorry if that's important to you), people really into AI or tech stuff (again, not my vibe), people who are afraid to travel or overly attached to one place, overly non confrontational people
