Hello, and welcome to my profile.
I came here to Alt Scene out of curiosity, I'm interested to know who I can meet here. I wouldn't say I'm actively TRYING to find a partner, but if I meet someone and the chemistry is there then I'm not opposed to forming a relationship. As someone who is "hyper-affectionate," I would prefer my partner to be the same, or a bit clingy. Some people find this annoying, I find it absolutely endearing and adorable.
My taste in partners spans a wide variety, but I prefer someone who shares my style. This IS an 'alt' dating website after all. I don't have preferences about 'sizes' or things of that nature, I don't care as long as there is love.
I’m not the most ‘experienced’ person when it comes to certain aspects of dating, but if I manage to find a patient partner I doubt this will be an issue.
I don’t mind having differences between myself and my partner, I’m too old for the whole “oh, we aren’t exact clones of each other so we are completely incompatible” nonsense.
Even if I don’t enjoy something that my significant other does, I can still enjoy it WITH them.
I would like to add that I value honesty, maturity, and open-mindedness. I'm not saying you have to be a prude, just know how to handle yourself when the time comes. If a partner of mine knew how to handle their responsibilities as an adult, but also liked to snuggle and watch cartoons/films/anime, I would be a VERY happy lover. Especially if we share the same favorites; Regular Show/Adventure Time being my top picks. I don’t have a favorite episode of Regular Show, but my favorite episode of Adventure Time would be “Mortal Recoil.”
I lean towards having a relationship where both of us handle our own affairs, but can be kids with each other. Sharing funny pictures, exploring abandoned and supposedly ‘haunted’ areas, knowing damn well we won’t find anything but we do it anyway. A balanced relationship of fun, and life management. Fun and function. That way it isn’t dull, but we also know what needs to be done and are both capable of making decisions, that’s part of growing up.
One thing that would make me break off the relationship immediately is any form of cheating, that is something I will not stand for. I don't cheat, and I don't tolerate it.
Some people have asked me why I bother with dating, friendships, or personal ambitions. I believe that life is a ‘punch-in’ and ‘punch-out’ experience. There was nothing before you were born, and after you die there will be nothing once more. In some cases nothing but memories, in others not even that. You’re here for a temporary amount of time, you decide what you do when you’re here, but there’s no escaping the end. The grim reaper comes knocking on everyone’s door, he is everyone’s escort.
I can be friends and speak to anyone, but my ideal partner's age should be 23-33. Ever since I was a pre-teen I would always get along better with TEACHERS rather than STUDENTS, I developed/aged/matured a lot faster than my peers naturally, and even more so after certain events happened, I went through a lot. As an adult I now prefer the company of older people because I find it easier to connect with them. I'm quite exhausted from telling friends of mine to "grow up" and watching them do the same childish things they did in high school.
Now, as I've mentioned, I've lived a lot of life in the short time I've been here. That being said, I'm not looking to marry or have children. That is a choice in life, not a requirement, and I've made my choice. I am highly against being with someone who already has children as well.
I don't smoke, nor do I drink. Given my family's history it would be unwise for me to pick up those habits.
One of my many hobbies include swimming, and I plan on becoming a licensed scuba diver. It is an expensive hobby, but when I have the time and funds I'll continue on that adventure.
Apart from drawing and photography (yes I have a polaroid camera), I like practicing code and studying different computer languages. As for the human language, I’m learning German.
I do often play games, I find it to be a relaxing thing to do to kill time. Though I rarely do multiplayer or online sessions with others.
Fun fact about me: I have nipple piercings.
I plan on getting inked in the future, I am already drawing up designs for things I plan on getting.
That's about it for now, anything else I need to share I'll do it directly through messaging.
