I've been into **** most of my life. I'm definitely a Dominant that is loving and caring and abide by the safe, sane, and consensual tenets. Everything thing is negotiable with some hard limits. I've also been part of the Biker subculture and have been in a traditional MC for the past 20 years. I'm not a normie by anymeans. I'm drawn to people that are comfortable with who they are and not cookie cutter basic status quo.