If you’re not easily intimidated by an assertive, ambitious woman, please keep reading. This MBA-educated equestrian, entrepreneur, budding archer, and lover of travel and French cuisine is looking for something more lasting than a fling, but prefers alternative relationships (poly, open) and ethical non-monogamy (wherein all parties know). Not interested in being anybody’s mistress.
That said, I value intelligence, honesty, empathy, maturity and a deeply perverse sense of humor — someone who can speak to both my dark and light sides and understand my need for a non-vanilla lifestyle.
Old souls and older men stir my heart. You’re able to sit through dinner and a conversation without once looking at your phone. You don’t deal with frustration by blowing up. You can always find your keys. You hold the door, send flowers and speak kindly to wait staff and subordinates. But you’re also bold, astute and self assured. You enjoy live music and travel. You’re a closet gear head who likes to get his hands dirty in the garage, now and again.
Above all else you don’t think that intellectuals manqués like Joe Rogan and Jordan Petersen matter at all. You prefer real thought to mere background noise. Bros and boys need not apply.
If you know your way around a wine list and have never drunk texted a woman at three o’clock in the morning then you may be the gentleman I’m looking for. The prize for winning my attention will be the company of an exotically beautiful and wickedly smart thirtysomething woman of substance with a genuine lust for life and the pleasures of the flesh.
