Been out of the dating loop for a while, but I’m now out and actively looking for new relationships. Viva la 2026!
I’m polyamorous and practice ethical non-monogamy, which I know will put most of you reading off any form of relationship with me, but honesty and communication are both key.
Who am I looking for? Well, whoever it is must like cats: I have many! Not looking for anything too intense at the moment, though if things develop, I’m not going to shy away. For better or worse, I love quickly and easily (if it’s working, why wait?), care passionately, and will be interested in who you are rather than anything superficial.
I spend my spare time dancing at clubs (regular at Slimelight, Voodoo, AC, GothBox, the Calling and many more) or gigs, and try to get at least two festivals under my belt every year, including at least one in foreign countries such as Germany and the North. I also game, both PS5 and tabletop, and run my own D&D campaign, which involves a few hours a week writing. Add to that reading (my profile name comes from my current favourite series) and disappearing down the “ooh, that’s interesting” rabbit holes of learning. Honestly, I do have time to date!
If you’re wanting labels and stuff, I’m a goth with a side of metaller, and a hint of raver.
If the appearances are important, I’m tall (6’2”), skinny but not emaciated (I’m the green side of almost underweight and I cannot, no matter how hard I try, get my weight above this). I have long hair that’s dyed an unnatural red.
I’m definitely not a sub. I say this as I’ve had several Americans asking if I want to be dominated by or to worship them. I don’t. Really. Don’t waste your time!
You’ll have to ask, and you have permission to do so, if you want to know more details about my kinks. That goes for anything else. Ask away!
