Greetings, my life story is long and complicated seems I have a 7-9 year cycle, 7- 9 years of positive energy where I am happy and life is so sweet rainbows and unicorns then something bad happens and I face 7 - 9 years of unhappy saddness, doom and gloom devils stabbing my brain with their pointy sticks. These are the cards I am delt good times bad times I want to break this cycle and meet someone and everything is cold beer on tropical beaches, sweet chilled music and its happy endings.
I am that alternative guy went to my first 3 day festival in 1972 I was 9 years old and alone I found myself in awe at the crazy bikers all chrome, black paint, the smell of gasoline and burned oil that strange sweet smell from cigarettes that they shared.
Biker 'Hey kid where are your mummy and daddy?"
Me "I don't know'
Biker "Are you lost?, should we help you'
Me 'No I never had any parents i was found"
Biker 'So who are you here with kid'
Me 'I'm here alone, I live a few miles over there and I wanted to come and see the show'
Biker " s**t kid well your with us now get over here away from those fuc'in freaks"
7 years later I had my own cool machine I was grunge before grunge was grunge, I was Kerouac before I knew Jack, this life came naturally to me I was not led into something because I was already there. They passed me a spliff "hold the smoke in kid" I did and coughed so much I thought my lungs would alainate out'a my chest but it was my brain that broke free from the chains of gravity to cheers and laughter I had been brought to the edge of the ledge, I was pushed but I did not stumble or fall but found my wings and soared. From that moment a new me came to be.
There have been good times, there have been bad times the only times I regret are those wasted times because life is for livin and you get nowhere by standing still.
Choosing a partner is not difficult a good conversation to look into someones eyes and catch that sparkle, to take a chance and most of all commitment to honesty and love. To have somethings in common like music to share gigs together or time alone it's not a necessity to have everything in common its learning to appreciate some of your partners tastes, trust is a necessity to share without trust there is no future. There are many bumps on the road to true happiness talking and listening go hand in hand being in love really plays havoc with all your emotions from a man's point of view I cannot speak as to how a woman feels men can really try to say the complimentary thing but for some reason his tongue and brain become disconnected then in backtracking and apologising they just dig that hole into a grave so learning to listen is important especially early in a relationship later on you can almost communicate without speaking when you reach that stage if you are committed love will be yours forever.