Just for the record I am not as scruffy looking as the pictures make it look, , a single dad with a beautiful 10 year old girl, recently widowed electrical designer( makes scribbles look good), have a nice little house , played in rock bands most of my life but now if I get to jam or do a session a week I'm lucky, Just started to work on my new flat downstairs for some much needed reno-work, I tend to hangout with my daughters friends parents and and old music friends, I love mostly any food but watch I eat and look for the ultimate Brewery,coffee/pastry shop, outside light hiking (a request I have terrible grammar) and I is secure and had a lots of ups and downs But I can handle almost anything now haha , my feelings dont get hurt, my daughter is my guiding light,