I believe that in everyday life couples are equals, with strengths and weakness that hopefully balance out for a calm and loving life. But behind closed doors and aside from all the usual things couples do, this middle aged, otherwise sane, and normal man seeks a female partner who likes to or wants to develop her sexual assertiveness for mutual pleasure. Experienced in role reversal role play, I’ve found assertive/submissive role play an absorbing way of distancing yourselves from everyday life. I’m not after dungeons and leather or lifestyle servitude, but more subtle and imaginative forms of testing my total devotion coupled with humiliation.
As for music...eclectic, no one genre or band, can encompass classical to contempoary and all points in between. Rock, soft rock, indie, 60s 70s 80s 90s oos, and whatever if I like it!
