Shy goth girl on the lookout for a life partner in the local commutable area. I have extreme travel anxiety so no I will not do long distance. I'm 28 so at this stage in life I'm looking to potentially settle down, not screw around. Very much a ride or die chick, usually to my detriment. As a sapiosexual I require a guy with intelligence. Not just cerebral but emotional too. Someone who can spark curiosity and intrigue in me.
A potential partner cannot be vanilla (have to be careful how I word things on here as altscene likes to censor us like kids). During lockdown I've been through a period of deep introspection and have come to the conclusion that I very much need the Teacher/student relationship dynamic with me as the sub being a student. I basically need to be with a guy who can be in control and take the reins when necessary but also be nurturing and not take advantage of me which is where I've gone wrong before. At this point I've settled on the fact that I'm an older middle (that doesn't outwardly regress) and essentially need a caregiver/daddy. I have recently joined the local community and have started attending munches. I am on FL under the same username. All that being said I'm fiercely loyal, once I say I'm with a person I'm with them. I'm a lady of class not a tramp, I expect to be romanced and wooed.
My vanilla side: I'm something of an armchair magician with a background in folk magick as an ex Wiccan, have a passion for the occult sciences/hermetics, science in general, tea enthusiast and very big on environmental issues. Absolutely love b-movie horror especially hammer and things like MST3K. As I said before I'm goth and super into goth rock, post punk, dark wave, industrial dance and EBM music as well as say pagan folk, world music and rock in general. Love supporting the South West goth scene and musicians, going to events. I'm very outdoorsy as a pagan. Love going on nature walks in mystical forests and I love castles with vast sprawling gardens. As a result of the pandemic I have discovered a new lust for life and want to live it to it's fullest with an ideal travel companion.
If I tickle your pickle, feel free to give me a bell