Don't bother if you put people down, think everything is about you, if you can't look past your own thinking, think everything is what you think it is and not what it really is, can't drive into deep conversation, are insecure, don't know what you want in life, don't know yourself.
I don't add friends.
Probably not going to be on here much anymore. The absence of substance is great on here. Finding way more rude, closed minded people on here than tinder, which say something.
I live by "be honest to others but most importantly BE HONEST TO YOURSELF"
Qualities I have and ones I look for.....
I'm very spiritual. A bit of a Buddhist outlook on life with more Christians morals. I've has a handful of spiritual experiences. I believe God is energy that is in all things. I'm an empath. I love crystals, plants and art. I draw, paint and create things. Mainly home decor. I'm a busy person. I have a full time job and I also attend college. I have my life together. I'm on a path of spiritual awareness and enlightenment. I've been called a stoic. I'm more of a serious person. Person growth is extremely important to me. Highly aware of myself and the world around me. I know exactly what I want and what I don't want. I value personality. I have no value in physical appearances. I'm a deep thinker and analytical. I'm independent, strong, driven, introverted extrovert.
I don't smoke or use drugs. Not interested in anyone that uses. I live a healthy balanced life, mind, body and spirit are all aligned.
Basically a temperamental house plant. Need the right amount of sun and water, can wilt if given too much attention.
I also like the basics, horror movies, dark spooky stuff, bats, skulls, velvet, Victorian, antiques, old books, art galleries, classical music, plants, Crystal's, foggy days.
I do love my peace and serenity. I'm more of a homebody that spends her time making art and meditating. I have a small group of friends. I'm very selective with the energy that I let around me. I'm more of a loner. Love peace and quiet.
I'm what most people call boring. I love it!!!
I'm seeking a match based on personal quality rather than interest and hobbies. *this creates a lasting match* many people can fit because of likening the same things but don't last when personalities clash and are not a good fit.
What I'm looking for....
Someone that fits with me like a matching puzzle peice.
To meet someone that I can put roots down with and start a family with. Some who has their life together. Who is spiritual, logical, balanced, driven, independent, kind, peaceful, spooky, artistic, goal oriented and highly self aware.
If you don't possess any of those qualities please don't reach out. I know very specifically what will fit with me. Please respect it!
Ps. Since I don't value personal appearance I don't like complements on mine. Don't make it weird!
Also please don't contact me if you are negative, don't respect other people's way of life, are looking for help, have insecurities, don't know what you want or what your looking for, you are cold and have regrets.
As a society we have grown and became dependent on time fillers that we have forgotten what a mental connection is.