Let's start over.
Firstly hello! I'm back. I never know how much to write in these things. Too little makes you seem boring and lacks engagement whilst too much may scare people off. Well, if it scares you then you're not the right person for me haha. So here goes...
I'm not looking for anything in particular. I'm not into one night stands or anything similar but I would like to believe that there are people out there that I'm able to make a real connection with. I'd like to think it is still possible for two people to meet, date, get to know each other and see if anything blossoms organically. I'll be honest, I'm not overly fond of online dating in the digital age. I feel that people tire easily and are very quick to move on if there isn't an intense, instant connection. I think that the search for immediate gratification means that we are constantly looking for that rush of serotonin to make ourselves feel good. We love that feeling, after all our brains are programmed to enjoy it. But with the digital world at our fingertips this means that we don't necessarily invest as much time and energy into the people we meet as we once did. Most of us are talking to multiple people at any one time, but one wrong word, awkward message, wrongly placed GIF or a huge pause in communication and we risk losing the entire conversation to the graveyard, to live out our days in ghost town!
I would like to find interesting people to talk to, someone that can hold a conversation, talk about deep and meaningful subjects and who, when really engaged, speaks with fire and passion about the things they hold close to them. I must admit, I have grown somewhat tired of the monotonous conversations and endless small talk that never really leads anywhere. I enjoy conversations that challenge my way of thinking and being able to explore new and exciting ideas with another is important to me.
If you really want to spark my interest then let's talk about ethics, health, morals, human psychology, anything really! Space and physics are also ridiculously fascinating but insanely mind boggling, like quantum entanglement...that literally blows my mind! Or how about the block universe theory? I'm so tired of small talk, but of course it has its place and serves its purpose. I don't expect crazy deep and meaningfuls straight off the bat haha 😅 I'm just someone that loves delving into interesting ideas and theories. I thrive on intelligent and engaging conversation.
I'm also a really silly person, fun loving and easy going. I love a guy who can make me genuinely laugh and smile. Who doesn't?! I am going to be honest though, I sometimes find it difficult to express myself properly through text. It is something I am working on but hey, we all have our flaws right? So if we do hit it off, I'd love to get to know you more and if things go well maybe we could meet over coffee (well hot chocolate for me 😝) or dinner and a movie? (If that stuff still exists).
Likes: Roller derby, cats, live music, festivals, thunderstorms, dancing in the rain, kissing in the rain, holding hands, long walks, fitness, Netflix, playing piano (badly) old skool gaming, fire poi, being creative, random adventures...
...I could go on for hours but then we would have nothing to talk about haha
Dislikes: Coffee (more for you), pineapple on pizza, feet.
I'm one of the most genuine, caring and loving people you'll ever meet. I'm oodles of fun to be around and there is never a boring moment to be had 😝 I do have a super busy schedule though, I like to stay active, I have a fair amount of hobbies and I regularly travel all over the country to see family and friends. I am in a good place in my life but would definitely make time for the right person if such a thing exists.
If you're still reading well done 😅 I'm a bit quirky, I won't apologise for that haha! So, that's a little bit (a lot) about me. Tell me something about you?