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TIM86

34 - Straight

West Midlands, United Kingdom

Nov 28, 2020 13:10

I run a small garden maintenance business which I love and enjoy the freedom of being self employed with a good work/life balance. In my spare time I'm a folk rock/alternative singer/songwriter and enjoy gigs (performing and watching), listening to music (I like most genres of rock plus folk, soul, funk and reggae/ska), walking, cycling and long drives in the outdoors. I also enjoy reading (fiction, non fiction, and poetry), watching box sets of old BBC comedies, classic spy series and documentaries and art (mostly painting and sketching). I would describe myself as creative, spiritual, deep, open minded, honest, empathetic, trustworthy, reliable and a good listener. I'm not the loudest or most outgoing guy in the world but I'm not a total introvert either - I have more than enough confidence to hold a conversation with new people I meet and intelligent enough to keep it interesting. I have a good sense of humour and I'm told I can be rather witty. Overall I would say I'm happy and content with life (but not complacent - I still have aims and ambitions and like discovering and trying new things in life). I don't regard being in a relationship to be essential to live a happy life as I already lead one and I like my independence but long term I would like to share my life and happiness with another person and to take an active interest in theirs. I'm not looking to rush into a serious relationship (meeting new friends and seeing how things develop would be nice in the short term). I dislike liars, cheats, narcissists, racists, sexists, snobs, materialistic, shallow and narrow minded people. How much money a person has or what their job, background or living arrangements are does not matter to me - it's a person's soul and heart that counts. Long term I would like to meet someone who shares a similar philosophy on life, preferably someone creative or if not someone who appreciates creativity but most of all someone honest and genuine with a good soul and heart. Someone who's an independent individual and who doesn't follow the crowd. Someone who lives within or near the Midlands but I'm still happy to chat if you live further afield. I'm only really a light drinker and whilst I'm not necessarily against (soft) drugs I've never used any myself and have no interest in doing so. I live with my parents at the moment - not because I'm a mommy's boy but because whilst I'm still single and whilst I still have a good relationship with family I'd rather be able to save money to eventually purchase a property rather than pour all my money into expensive rent payments and not be able to save for the future. I live quite independently of them within that arrangement and would pool resources to move out with the right person if the relationship developed to that extent. If that's an issue then there is no need to contact me. As a rule I no longer send the first message if I match with someone - that's not because I can't be bothered as I believe in putting equal effort into communications but after being blanked by what felt like 9 out of every 10 people I made that first effort with I felt like I was wasting time and energy. If you wink at me you will get a wink in return, if you wave at me you will get a wave in return, if you say hi or hey you will get a hi or hey in return and if you send a message with thought or meaning you will get a thoughtful and meaningful reply. Unlike a lot of people on dating sites I will reply to all messages but I don't like one sided conversations - I will show an interest if the other person does too. I don't believe in chasing people nor do I believe people should chase me either. If 2 people like each other then there should be an equal effort on both sides. I'm not into playing mind games. I'm more approachable than how I've made myself sound here - I just like to be open and set everything out about myself and what I'm looking for so nobody is wasting their time. If you've read this far then you've done well lol - I never intended this to turn into my life story but there you go! Thanks for taking the time to visit and read my profile and if I'm not for you then I'd like to wish you all the very best with your search for love and life in general. If you like what you've read then I look forward to hearing from you. Love, peace and happiness xx

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