I'm a big nerd I love to learn, like my idea of a good first date is the field museum or the art Institute lol! I love watching movies and every now and then I play video games. I absolutely adore music and finding new music to love. Cooking and baking are one of my favorite things to do, I love making people food. I love creepy, dark, Goth type things but I also love bright, glittery, and cute things as well.
I'm a cat mom of a gutter punk junkyard cat named Genevieve, this flufball does not get along with other animals very well, especially hyper dogs. She was made a stray when my old neighbors moved and just left her behind, so I worked to gain her trust. One afternoon I got her close enough to feed her chicken, then that night she showed up at the back door like she had been my cat all my life. Her and I have been through a lot together, she has been my reason for clawing my way out of bed some days. I do not know what I would do without her, and I'm so glad she chose me. Be warned tho, if she doesn't like you I don't like you.
Full disclosure I am poly and I have 2 long distance partners that I am very much in love with and have been for a very long time now, so they would be primaries over you and they are both my doms in different ways and I obey them implicitly, you have to be understanding of that. They will be informed you are talking to me, but they probably won't want or need to know more then that. I don't belive they would want to talk to you, but I'm not sure. They are both VERY easy going and not at all jealous, and phenomenal doms literally in 20 years they are hands down the best I have ever had (don't let that discourage you that doesn't mean you wouldn't be also)
I've been in the B*D*S*M* community for 20 years, I am a sub/little. Understand if you approach me and tell me you are a dom, I can tell a REAL dom from a guy that just likes to call himself a dom. The past 3 doms I had were fake and I'm really very tired of it.
Physically...I'm a fat girl, so if you don't like fat girls...let's not waste each other's time hmmmm? I dont mean "I'm fat" like the 110 lbs girl that says she's fat nah motherf**ker I like food! I am working on getting healthy, but depression is a bitch and its not as easy as id like it to be. I'm also 5'10, no I don't care how tall you are, but it has seemed to be a problem for a lot of men. They find it hard to be dominant, with someone that towers over them and I can respect that.
I'm just looking for someone that is loyal, honest, will communicate, will not cheat or abuse me and oh idk treat me how partners SHOULD treat each other. At some point I want marrige and children and a cute creepy goth little house in the burbs (if society hasn't collapsed) . Oh and be 34-40 please I'm not into guys younger then me.
So if you like what you read, send me a message. I'm really sorry if I'm slow to respond I do not get on her often! If you're on f e t l i f e leave your fet name in the message and I'll probably hit you up there instead! Hope you have an amazing Christmas!
