OK, I've tried some other online dating sites to no avail. I am a very young 66, looking for that woman who "gets" me and I get her. I have a balance between being the guy on Match and the guy who's trying this. I'm a little bit of everything. Music is integral to my existence.I don't play anything but managed record stores for 20 years, make my own Mix CDs for holiday presents (a lot of artistry goes into a great mix CD), and can't imagine life without music. I am a writer, have an Amazon/Ebay business on the side, work in a library and am still looking for what I want to do for the rest of my life! I love books, film, a lot of the current cutting edge television and expanding my arts world. I love conversation of all kinds. I am mysterious in some ways, curious, open-minded, creative, funny, spontaneous, s*xy (once you get to know me, I'm the best), fun, and ...well, you need to get to know me. I like hiking, wine-tasting, Powell's Books, raspberries, discovering new restaurants...