In my teens I was a proud Baby Bat that never left their dwelling without a full pencil of eyeliner on; it is incredibly cringy to look back on. Last few years of my adolescence were more geared towards a New Romantic kind of style that suited me a lot better. In my first year of college I became more grunge, necessity demanding in 21 hour days and 3 hour night's that I give up my narcissistic makeup tendencies to the point that by my second year I was just a normie zombie student trying to get by.
Now, I work conventions. Steampunk, anime, sci-fi, SCA, RoC, Amtgard, and LARP -- we do a lot and I've found as these passionate people pass my booth, so excited to share these parts of themselves, that I miss bits of my previous lifestyle. I fell out of the scene and I kind of want to explore it all over again. But I'm worried I might be too old. I mean, my gothling days were back during MySpace. I'm probably not even using the appropriate vernacular.
Well, whatever. This seems to be a dating website. I'm a pan, poly, genderqueer mess living with my boyfriend, girlfriend (whom are married to one another), and her boyfriend. I'm only really open to one more partner for myself, I can't handle more than 3 with my schedule. Mostly I'm just here to meet people. I'm a "if it happens it happens" kind of person. It would be lovely if you stopped for a chat.
WILL NOT ACCEPT RANDOM FRIEND REQUESTS - chat me up first, jeez.
Please have something more to say than "hi" or "kys." Example topics that I will pounce on: anything I shared in my background, music, pen & paper rpgs, Supernatural, Firefly, Thomas Sanders, Baccano, general anime/manga we might share an interest in, other nerdy stuff, or even come in ranting about your day. Give me something of substance to chew on, gorrammit. Not a grammar Nazi, but I also respond better with some form of punctuation to show the beginning and end of sentences.
If I stop messaging mid conversation: I am busy or sleeping. I'm not ignoring you. I have three jobs and zero life outside of them. This is me attempting to do new things.
