Dating sites don't work for me. The label "bi" doesn't work for me either, but there wasn't a lot of choice. I just want to be myself. What I'm really attracted to is a person that has a balance of masculine and feminine. The thing that thrills me most is a really butch woman--a true hard-core dyke. But most lesbians will have nothing to do with me once they find out I don't have a problem with men. So I'm open to men as well, especially men who can embrace their feminine side, as long as they are capable of seeing me as a true equal. Is that possible? I don't like the "bi" label because that's not what I am. I don't want both. I just want one person. A partner. Which body parts they have is the least of my concerns. I can love a person for who they are, regardless of what body they are in.