I'll be direct, and begin by saying that I'm not looking for anything serious right now. Now, that could always change (and I honestly wouldn't mind—I'd prefer a loving, dedicated partner), but I've got a lot of things on my metaphorical plate — it doesn't seem like I have time for a dedicated relationship. Ideally, I'd like to hear from people who want to develop new, but spacious relationships — meaningful ones, especially — with the primary function being satisfaction of needs for physical intimacy. Just making new friends would be great too, but ideally I'd like to meet people like me: people with high ambitions (and, I’m admittedly struggling with depression [which, the isolation out here is not helping one bit] and some mysterious stomach issues) and aren't currently able to fulfill the needs of another person beyond the provisions of a loving friendship. I suspect I won't be seeking this forever, though. In fact, if we’re an awesome fit, I could pivot on a dime and happily begin something long-term and committed. And I mean, if I’m honest, I’d really prefer the main, probably monogamous relationship. I just don’t think I can find it on here.
I really value creativity: doesn't matter what it is. Writers, painters, musicians—anything. You've already won points in my eyes if you express yourself through any medium.
Message me! No need to be shy — I enjoy when other people reach out first. Also, it helps you show up sooner in the little swipey-thinger.
Disinclination for small talk. Preference for regarding things that matter deeply. Taking things very seriously. Taking things not seriously at all.
Consent is paramount.
INFJ.
Irrationality- / Melodrama-phobic. (I'm not claiming women are prone to either of these. It's more that some *people* are. And it isn't so much fun.)
"Aloof" — not to be confused with "loofa."
LOVE EACH OTHER. LOVE EACH OTHER. LOVE EACH OTHER.
I once quit my job and drove around the US by myself for two and a half months. Happiest time of my life.. [Now accepting applications for road trip companion.]
I spend most of my time hunched at the desk below, fiddling in Ableton and working on songs, or reading/studying up on music and whatever else. I'd really love to meet people who also play music, but it's not necessary. I like all creative things. I even like non-creative things. Basically I like things.
Maybe I can teach you how to play guitar or something else? Come on over and we can make some music together. Or doodle weird things. Or engage in deep conversation about personally revealing life histories. Or who knows.
