This is so tough for everyone, so I asked a friend to try to summarize me... and this is what I got...
"Ted is a guy who seems incredibly shy at first, maybe even awkward. In reality, he is the opposite! He is friendly and self - assured. Don't ask him a question if you aren't prepared for the truth. Ted is rather hard to get to know just from texting, messaging, email, etc. So, go for it and meet him in person! He is constantly surprising me, and never boring to be around. He needs a little tutoring in speaking "woman"... so, if you have something to tell him, be blunt, he can handle it. He claims to be just a geeky, video game playing metal head... but, he works on Wall Street, knows where to find the best food anywhere in NYC, and is a little too smart for his own good. And, although he won't say this, he is a pretty damn good guitar player. "