I am new here my cousin signed me up I'm 32 yrs old i currently live here in dyer Indiana and i am from Illinois distance is nothing to me.. Ideal relations, for me, this is when people have a similar world view and a lot of common themes, when in a relationship mutual and strong love, harmony, mutual understanding, trust and respect, when they appreciate every little thing a loved one does when people support and endlessly believe in each other, when you can share personal problems and the most intimate thoughts and know that you will not be betrayed.