I'm a grudge type of goth/ metal head who generally spends most of my time not at work as a chef sitting in random spots pondering the mysteries of the cosmos. I'm deeply spiritual and highly independent most of the time but I do get lonely. I'm not looking for someone to instantly attach the title of love of my life or lifelong companion. I got to get to know you first because I want to find a best friend and fall in love with them that way I know it will last. I'm not opposed to short term relationship/ just s*x encounters because it could lead to something greater